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Author:  snugy [ Wed Feb 04, 2009 4:28 am ]
Post subject:  common mistakes
Hey guys I'm trying to figure out some common mistakes guys make during their routine.

If there's a list of examples or things to avoid during pick up post it here please.


Thanks,

snugy
Author:  Sun of Nothing [ Wed Feb 04, 2009 6:18 am ]
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1) Displaying over attraction for the girl.
2) Nonstop talking on the guys end.
3) Letting your game slip because you "run out of material." (lame, be situational, creative, dynamic--stop relying on rehearsed material but have some just in case.)
4) Most importantly, know when to end the interaction. Leave on a high note with her wanting more. Don't divulge everything in the first meeting either.
Author:  SiNfUl [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 6:37 pm ]
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Don't divulge everything in the first meeting either.

This is a HUGE mistake many guys make.

You have to keep a certain amount of anonymity with women, never let them figure you out. Use a shroud of mystery to keep them in suspense. This is a great way to keep IL up.
Author:  Tyrannon [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 11:01 pm ]
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Don't divulge everything in the first meeting either.

This is a HUGE mistake many guys make.

You have to keep a certain amount of anonymity with women, never let them figure you out. Use a shroud of mystery to keep them in suspense. This is a great way to keep IL up.
I'm going to have to throw down my experience on this one as well, and it's happened to me too. You just get started, you got a couple cool routines you feel you have down. And you work all your magic on the first date.

What happens the next time you see her? She's going to expect you to do tricks, have you ever tried to learn new material and then try demonstrating it two seconds later? Not so easy, try and avoid this by sitting down, using some material, if she asks you personal questions, playfully say, "hey if I told you, then there wouldn't be anything to look forward to the next time I pick you up".

Definitely talk to her and use kino escalation all the while trying to be interesting. I know it seems like a lot but even musicians and martial artists focus on ten different things at once to achieve their desired effect.

One technique I like to use when I was reading up on Mystery was this:

As you are leaning back being interesting and passionate, you need to build kino. While you speak, never outright command her, you need to send subtle messages (think Ross Jeffries on this), then you should put your hands out with your palms facing upwards. While you are speaking, and that you've obviously been creating attraction between the both of you, without even saying anything she will put her hands on yours. At this point you just push and pull on her hands for a moment, if there is any tension, you just need to build her up some more.

This is a great way to find out if they are ready to get closer to you physically and whether your charm is working (as it should be!).

Enjoy mate.
Author:  Maf-PbC [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 12:34 am ]
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Don't divulge everything in the first meeting either.

This is a HUGE mistake many guys make.

You have to keep a certain amount of anonymity with women, never let them figure you out. Use a shroud of mystery to keep them in suspense. This is a great way to keep IL up.
If you do this right you can keep a girl interested easily from the 1st time to the next time, just never let her know too much or keep things brief with her(only way to make it happen). Leave before you need to or keep movin(never totally let her know your interested) and itll just drive her nuts.

That way if you want to get her out somewhere she'll be willing to show up hoping to solve the "mystery" over you.

Honestly anyone that hasn't tried anything like this DO IT NOW and enjoy.
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