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| Author: | apj [ Tue Feb 03, 2009 1:32 pm ] |
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Hey guys, New to the community after coming out of a very long term relationship recently and finding I have a non-existent game when it comes to women. I have been doing tons of reading and experimenting with various techniques and making steady progress. Last weekend I met up with a chick I had met online. She's a HB7 and we struck it off pretty well when we met up. I managed to K close on our first meet up but I have to qualify it by saying she was a little drunk and I pulled out the big guns straight up going in for D&M conversation early on (spirituality, buddhism etc which she is big on). We were together for about 3 hours with tons of kino, IOI's etc but after the k-close she rejected an invite back to my place. I was cool with it and didn't show much reaction but it stung a little and I thought I'd probably blown it. Since the weekend though she's contacted me a few times by TXT, email and facebook saying she wants to hookup next weekend for a bike ride and there's been a bit of playful banter. I really want to bring our interaction back from the D&M stuff to sort of playful banter again but need a little advice on how to proceed. Playful banter and chit-chat is by far the weakest part of my game (I'm pretty good looking, fit body, good at intellectual / D&M conversations). Here's our last couple of msg's to each other on FB. I really don't know where to go from here: She wrote at 2:11pm Know anyone who might be interested in buying my Z750...??? I wrote at 9:53pm lol wut? I thought owning a Kawasaki was punishment >:-) She wrote at 10:05pm That sounds like something only a honda rider would say! You said you liked my baby... Were you just trying to get on my good side? Hmmm. So where to from here? I know its bad I am definetely your typical AFC. I am sure I can get good at this whole playful banter / witty remarks thing with some practice and a bit of direction. |
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| Author: | gqueue2008 [ Tue Feb 03, 2009 2:49 pm ] |
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To be honest you are on target. 3 hours isn’t a huge investment. I don’t know how much time you have spent online or talking on the phone but there are more than a few gurus who claim you’re probably going to need at least a couple of meetings and about 7 to 10 hours worth of comfort building to get to seduction. It’s that whole slut defense thing. Keep working her and try to create some more tension. If she is reciprocating your kino try some role reversal, tell her she needs to calm down because she’s not getting any tonight. Tell her you wore your old underwear so she can forget about any action. Tell her whatever. Heat her up than cool her down. Don’t be afraid to put in a little extra time but make her chase you. You need to create more attraction and tension and I’m not sure how to do that with D&M conversation maybe someone else has some advice there. I would defiantly try and work on light playful conversation. You’re doing fine goofing on her bike. Don’t sell yourself short. Tell her some interesting stories about your life. Display your value. She’s a 7 you’re a 10 it shouldn’t be that hard. |
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