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Author:  tony09uk [ Sun Feb 01, 2009 4:31 am ]
Post subject:  conversation is DULL!!!!
It's been some time since I have posted on the site... but I havnt been ignoring the game, I have been developing myself. My inital goal was to be able to simply start up a conversation with anyone... more specifically HB7+'s, well I have achieved that now (well almost any HB7+...) without the need for canned material :D . But now my aspirations have developed!!!! I am after getting a few kiss closes.

MY QUESTION:

How do I get better rapport, and lead the conversation into the opportunity for a kiss close?

MY ISSUE:

After the opening (where I come accross as MR SOCIABLE) I try to make the transistion into MR COMFORTABLE... but I turn into MR BORING. Its alright for a short time but invetablly the conversation becomes stunted at best, boring as runner up or just becomes nothing!!!!

I've read the three levels of seduction are "sociable" "comfort" "seduction" and its learning to make a transistion from one to the next that is what makes a good PUA. So:

How do I improve my conversational abilities????? (What books can I read? sites can I visit? courses can I do?)
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Sun Feb 01, 2009 5:58 am ]
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PM'd you with a book title.
Author:  23n [ Sun Feb 01, 2009 11:40 am ]
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Hi, can you PM me some resources as well? I am also interested in how I can improve in this area.

Thanks.
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Sun Feb 01, 2009 3:43 pm ]
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PM'd you with some titles.
Author:  nivram_07 [ Sun Feb 01, 2009 11:11 pm ]
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me too pls????
Author:  westcoast head1456 [ Mon Feb 02, 2009 2:10 am ]
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sup guys i think the juggler method is pretty good it goes alot into conversation and ways of making it seem interesting, which it sounds like you need.

ive read ALOT on pick up and a reoccuring piece of knowledge is its not so much what your saying but how your saying it, if you can concentrate on the tone and energy of the conversation and work on making even the dullest things sound exciting or fun i think youll find the solution to your problem.

when im talking to girls i just make statements and very rarely ask questions in terms of building comfort you need to move onto personal subjects such as family interests and then as you move along to stuff such as what they want to do in life. just stuff that inspiires a emotional reaction in them. i mainly do this by leading myself such as that reminds me about my sister blah and shel go on about her family aspirations and what not just lead the conversaiton towards those topics, youll find a list in juggles book i think theres like four levels of comfort building topics that get more intimate and thus higher levels of comfort so you could try that, although as i said alot comes down to how you convery all this, 10 percent is what you say 40 percent how you say it and the rest body language.

so give that a go change how you convey information your tone, lead to those topics that build comfort, and make alot of SPAM to do this alot of where i used to find conversation was breaking down was when i was like hey girl Qestion answer Q+A and then it just dies down.

anyway thats my thoughts l
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