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Author:  IAm-Me [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 12:11 am ]
Post subject:  AZ's dancefloor game tips
Hi guys,

I will update this on a frequent basis. I know there are a few threads floating around but I dont want to hijack anyone else's and I think I have good enough knowledge to give tips. I came to this forum because I got annoyed at the amount of feedback at the other one.

This thread is more focused on the actual dancefloor interaction (which is why I put it in Mid-Game), although around my 3rd/4th post in this thread I will include some dancefloor openers.

***Please share your feedback too*** but I'd really appreciate no thread-hijacking as Im doing the same to others.

I hope you take your time reading and responding, and respond to my FRs which many would involve dancefloor game.


P.S I am AZ just incase you were wondering :lol:
Author:  IAm-Me [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 12:22 am ]
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Few basics-

1. Dancefloor is NOT a trap:
Please, 90% of all hotties are on the floor. You're telling me this is a trap? It's a trap if you can't dance in the same way it's a trap if you can't talk to a pretty girl.

2. Social proof is not mandatory, but will absolutely increase your dance prowness by 2000+%:
It's like this- You can get good as dancing as much as you can, but it'll always be an uphill struggle if you lack social proof. At the very least, have a wingman that can effectively disarm obstacles. Having girls is better

a) On a short note, yes you can get instant social proof without having known them prior to entering the club/venue

3. You don't need to dance like a superstar, in fact, you only need moves off youtube:
I learned most of my moves off youtube. After long-term calibration at clubs, people assume I'm a really damn good dancer. Actually, I just freestyle and good at partner-dancing. IF you are absolutely uncordinated, just take 3-4 dance class, such as Salsa, hiphop and house.

4. Learn how to count beats:
At least stay on beat.

5. Befriend your target's friends:
I think this is a no-brainer, but seriously you dont want your awesome dancing to be interrupted

Hope this is enough for a good first post. I will add A LOT more posts in the coming few days.
Author:  IAm-Me [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 12:24 am ]
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Here's some more I forgot to add:

1. Try to talk less while dancing:
I usually just throw in a banter line or two. Please dont say shit like "Hi I think you are a very good dancer" while you're dancing, or start ask her logical questions like "Where are you from". That's a no-no! There are exceptions to this rule, but for my first post, I'll just leave it at that.

2. Most importantly, make sure you mirror the girl's energy level, or at least 1-2 levels higher:
Don't dance too energetically for the girl or she will get put off and won't know how to keep up with you. dance too low energy and she'll think you're absolutely boring

3. Dancing is just an "energy-level raising" activity:
Dancing at the end of the day, will not allow you to get to know her better, since talking is kept at an absolute bare minimum. I always believe there's types of dancing that can build rapport, but you always need to isolate.


Check my next post for Dancing to Raise Energy Level v.s. Dancing to Build Rapport

Please leave feedback for now!
Author:  iodine [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 7:40 am ]
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this stuff is gold!!!

keep it up....
Author:  IAm-Me [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 1:01 am ]
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Dancing as Energy Level Raiser v.s. Dancing with Rapport

There's two types of dancing.


The first type is as an energy level raiser. This is intended to pump up her energy level to capture her interest. Usually, this is done to show you that you are an interesting guy.

Read the previous posts on how to do high energy dancing. They include, booty bumps, bodywaves and all that funky stuff that you see in crazy upbeat dance videos.


Dancing with Rapport is when you have already been with the girl for a while, and you slow down the dancing. This is NOT the time where you start busting your moves to impress her. She should have already been impressed with you either off the dancefloor or on the dancefloor. This is where it's just one-on-one, regardless of the music, you slow it down. You dont necessarily have to dance off beat, or you could, cause at this point the music is just a filler.

This is where the personal space of each is virtually nothing. No fancy moves. Your front should be facing her front, and you should get her to ramp up the kino.
Author:  IAm-Me [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 1:02 am ]
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For now, I'll just throw in one dancefloor opener (this is still a Mid-Game thread, so my bad if it goes off topic a bit)

Opener:
You start rocking to her, shift your shoulders and grab your hand after 5 seconds of mirroring her moves.

she will get anxiety at first, but once you show that you are fun, then she'll start loving it. Especially if there's obstacles nearby watching.
Author:  IAm-Me [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 11:51 pm ]
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I got asked a very interesting question about dancefloor game today:

How much should you grind with the girl?

My answer: At a bare minimum, no more than 20-30% of the entire dancing interaction.

Grinding is fun, but facing the girl is a lot better, especially for ramping up kino.

For my next post, I will make a very detailed one about using social proof. Social proof while isnt always necessary, it is more than highly recommended.
Author:  pillow_fight [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 3:07 am ]
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This is good stuff, I love to dance so if I can mix PUA and dancing I'll be set.
Author:  Frozec [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 7:37 am ]
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You got a good game plan.....but now you have to take the girl off the dance floor and iso her....thats the hard part.....she is having sooo much fun dancing with you she is not goin to want to stop....then when her friends pull her away(cause of what ever the reason its)....its over....but you got a good game plan
Author:  IAm-Me [ Thu Jan 29, 2009 12:43 am ]
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Dont worry, in a few posts I will post about isolation techniques.

This is definitely not a game plan, but tactics and techniques. My only game plan is to have fun while deploying them.

Hope that helps you.
Author:  IAm-Me [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 6:35 am ]
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This post is long overdue. Been too busy lately with my personal development program.

But today's topic is about...SMILE!

The most underrated yet simple opener ever. Smiling.

Recently I've just been smiling at girls on the dance floor, of course with alpha body language.

Girls just open up like butter.

I know to a lot of you guys it may seem like a useless post, but it's funny because still many people dont use it.

GO OUT THERE AND SMILE. but dont do it in a creepy manner.
Author:  telly [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:18 am ]
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haha oh man i was at a club last night and dancing with some random girl and i said the you're a good dancer and asked her where she was from. i feel like such a tool now lol but o well i sensed she was attracted to me before that and i had a solid frame and ended up getting kiss close but i couldnt befriend her friends and so they eventually pulled her away. Any good tips on how to befriend a girl's friends on the dancefloor? that is the hardest part for me. thanks.

edit: also how do you get the girl to face you front to front. is just grabbing them and spinning them when you feel comfortable enough to legit? the girls i danced with usually started grinding on me with their bootys and later i would spin them or they'd just turn around on their own.
Author:  IAm-Me [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:46 am ]
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Any good tips on how to befriend a girl's friends on the dancefloor? that is the hardest part for me. thanks.
IF her friends arent around:

Me: "You're a pretty good dancer...in fact, WE make a great dance team"
She: (something positive)
Me: "Well, are your friends okay with me stealing you away from them? Let's go make sure they're alright because I dont want them to disturb us"

You should use these lines by the time she's really into your dancing.


IF her friends are around:

Me: "You're a pretty good dancer...in fact, WE make a great dance team"
She: (something positive)
Me *to her friends*: Hey guys, by the way, I'm _____. I just wanted to make sure you guys are alright with me borrowing your friend to dance. Me and her make such a great dance team (smile and gently laugh while looking at the girl)

Girl usually smiles/laughs back. Friends arent going to pull her away from you at that point. No friend ever does that unless she's mental. Using alpha body language while you introduce yourself and using body language to lock your target to you will help your cause a lot more.
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edit: also how do you get the girl to face you front to front. is just grabbing them and spinning them when you feel comfortable enough to legit?
I never start grinding with the girls. I'm the type of guy that dances with the girl in the front, then proceed to grinding, but then I start spinning the girl and stuff.

If she only likes to grind, which I encountered a girl last week like that, I ditch her, cause girls like that bore the hell outta me and there's many other pretty girls on the floor (hopefully you're at the right venue).
Author:  IAm-Me [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 8:25 am ]
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WHEN TO ISOLATE

This is something I've been experimenting lately as far as the varying times of when to isolate the girl. I hate to say this, but after one full song (if without DJ) is the best time to isolate the girl. This is because without the DJ, there are gaps in between the songs, which lowers the girl's buying temperature.

If there is a DJ, wait for no more than two and a half songs.

You want to isolate her sooner than later. It's a compliance test. When you isolate, you MUST always bring the friend's factor into account in your isolation line or else she will bring it and you lose your set and must resort to reopening the set at a later time, if she's still around.

Example:

"Damn we make an amazing dance COUPLE, so we definitely should get a well-deserved rest off the dancefloor *TOGETHER*. Of course, we should get your friends' permission or else they might not be happy. But I'm sure they're REASONABLE"

notice the tonality of the words couple, together and reasonable. try a line like that and it works like a gem.
Author:  The Heartless Kid [ Fri Feb 20, 2009 5:38 pm ]
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wow this shit is golden bro keep em coming :D
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