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Author:  Tman25 [ Mon Dec 29, 2008 4:02 pm ]
Post subject:  I Just Dont Get It - Me OR Him
So right I'm confused..
Here's the story..
About a month ago I ask a girl HB (1) out she said I'm not ready.
Ok
Later .. I asked another HB (2) out. =] she said no
Right then that day me and the hb 1 went into town I dunno butjust into town. Well I was with my wing man and we were on the bus with our friends (hbs) and hb1 was sat on my knee.

Later we got off the buss and went into a shop my mate and his hb went in the esulator while we went in the lift.
She glanced at me I looked back and she gave me a long hug. ( not usualy done)
We got through and wAlked around . She held out her hand we walked holding hands.
Later after the cinema at home on msn itold her I got rejected by hb2 and she said " there's plenty more fish in the sea"
Well it's a true saying.
And I said ( as a joke) " does that include you"
This is were I got worried. She said " yes that includes me"
I said " dude that was ajoke right?"
She said "no"
Then I started to think
Next thing I remember her telling me she liked this other lad called robbo. Now I'm confused..!

What was it all for?
Was she justmessing around?
Playing with my mind even.?
Does anyone have any... Advice on what to do?

PUA in Training.. :)
Author:  ace_of_spades [ Mon Dec 29, 2008 5:00 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Does anyone have any... Advice on what to do?
'Write a coherent story' would be a start.
Author:  nermob [ Mon Dec 29, 2008 5:14 pm ]
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Ok, lil' bro, here's what's going down.

With the hand holding and the hugging, she's initiating contact (Kino). This is very, very good. Means she's interested. She got it started for you but you need to be a gentleman and take it from there. Use the DiCarlo escalation ladder. Read this for instructions on how to do it: http://www.directnaturalgame.com/Techni ... adder.html
She is already in Overt Class 2, so start there. (with practice you'll want to internalize the process so you follow it naturally, since you don't want to be with a girl thinking "ok, I'm in 'overt' of such and such level")

The whole MSN convo, DUDE she's WANTS you.

Now, sometimes girls will feel like maybe they showed too much interest all at once and mention some other guy to A) get you a little jealous or B) not feel like a completely slut for throwing herself at you (which she did, with little response form you....bad). What happened on MSN is she put herself out there for you again and you didn't take that opportunity, which got her thinking "maybe he's not interested..."

So, give her chance to show her interest again, and reward it with your attention. The attraction is definitely there. Use the kino escalation ladder and comfort building conversation now. Try some fun tests like "the cube": http://www.seductiontuition.com/organic/the-cube.html Girls eat that stuff up.

I'm surely no expert, but hope that helps.
Author:  Mithos [ Mon Dec 29, 2008 8:29 pm ]
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Dude i'll make this short and sweet

Chicks will have crushes on thousands of guys within their life time, but they will only date the ones who have the balls to do something about it.
Author:  xeroxed88 [ Fri Jan 09, 2009 5:46 pm ]
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I wouldn't have said, "That was a joke, right?" as it puts you in a bad frame (low self-esteem, etc.)

Just go out there and get her. She wants you.
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