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Author:  Peng [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 6:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Just # Closed, this is where I fuckit
ive just number closed an HB8 that i used to know in school when i was 8. she is hot now, and i havent spoken to her since age 8.

now, for me, unless things naturally progress, i find it a sticking point to think of how to act at this point. i know about waiting to call/text her etc. and i know the things to say/do, but there seems to be a barrier in my mind, which will ultimately lead me to, not calling her, calling her drunk, or just simply texting some lame shit.

all i need is a re-opener... anyone got any ideas?
Author:  Lostboy29 [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 6:25 pm ]
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Can you remember anything from your days in school with this HB8??
Im also in this situation..but its a HB that I used to work with a few years ago. We worked together picking fruit during the summer months and her father owned the farm.. I txt her a little joke asking was there any work on the farm and made fun out of her saying she was a spoilt ;little brat :)

It went down well and we are meeting up again over the hols..I think she has a BF but im just looking to catch up :)

Think back to your days in school with her and use something from that.
Also tease her just like you would have in school...HBs love it :)

Also dont think too much about it..shes just a girl. No big deal!
Author:  seansmc [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 6:26 pm ]
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Some guys say there is no "amount of time" how long you should wait to send a text.I used to wait 2 days before i sent a text but now i just do it whenever I want none of this playing around waiting shit.

This thread might be of use to you list-of-text-messages-game-vt21175.html
Author:  vitaminc [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 6:36 pm ]
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i agree with seansmc.

also, dont make it complicated. you're overthinking the situation.
i normally just go with an easy text like "hey, this is X. thought i'd say hi quick before i head out/go to bed/whatever"
Author:  kasabi [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 4:15 pm ]
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With a "friend" you've already known, text her sooner than later, "Great seeing you again . . ." (Enough said)

Also . . . if this is how you usually get numbers, you're definitely seeing a good number of flakes. You didn't differentiate yourself from 10 other guys who also got her numbers.

Always try to associate your number/face/name with specific, fun and adventurous events. You should have been talking about "fantastic" things that you would probably never even do together. . . then you should have associated those "fantastic events" with much more "accessible" events that you can DEFINITELY do together.

Fantastic events:

Scuba diving in Indonesia. Snowboarding in Chamonix. Surfing in Hawaii. Motorcycling in Vietnam . . . etc . . .

Bridge:

"Oh my God, the coffee in Vietnam is absolutely amazing!" . . . "That reminds me . . . the Bordeaux we drank in Chamonix was sooo good." . . . "Hey, ever try Shave Ice? It's this thing they have in Hawaii . . . "

Accessible events:

"This Ice Cream shop I know does Shave Ice" . . . "This new wine bar I know does Bordeaux by the glass" . . . "This new cafe does this hand drip coffee just like Vietnam. It's really strong." . . .

Emotions are easy to switch on, slower to switch off. Ever get really pissed off? How long did it take you to calm down? Ever see a hilarious movie? You're feeling giddy all the way out to the parking lot right?

So throughout any "fantastic" story, the girls should be going, "Wow . . . Oh My God . . . Cool! . . . . That's craaaazy!"

Here's the funny part. And when I get to it, I'm nearly laughing at how predictable this is . . . I go, "This new cafe does the hand drip coffee just like Vietnam . . . "

And they go LOUDLY, "No way! . . . Or, get outta here! . . . Or, are you serious! . . . Or, That's amazing! (Ehm . . . yes, the hole in the wall cafe that is run by illegal immigrants who use aluminum utensils and coffee pots because they can't afford anything else is really, really amazing. I am TOTALLY SERIOUS! OH MY GOOOOOD!!!)

So you go, "Oh, you'd loooove it . . ." and she forces her number on you.

Sure, this takes a bit longer but these numbers are much better quality and you never have to sit there thinking, "What will I say? What will I tell her?"

You just go, "What are you doing later?"

"I dunno. . ." (The answer is always 'don't know' or 'nothing')

Then you go, "Vietnamese cafe. 4pm." (Then you set up the details)
Author:  Peng [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 4:23 pm ]
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hmm sorry, poor prior info. she did force her number upon me, and I have plenty of event/story association to carry on talking about. Basically, my brain wasnt switched on to how well I # closed her, and how easy it is going to be to re-open.
Author:  kasabi [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 5:07 pm ]
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hmm sorry, poor prior info. she did force her number upon me, and I have plenty of event/story association to carry on talking about. Basically, my brain wasnt switched on to how well I # closed her, and how easy it is going to be to re-open.
Dude, so you just made me type up all that crap due to some text/phone anxieties?
Author:  Peng [ Mon Dec 22, 2008 5:13 pm ]
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lol, if you want to see it that way!!

no lol, your reminded me of something i had done, without even thinking about it. so really, youve helped me a lot.

cheers fella!!
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Dec 24, 2008 4:43 pm ]
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i like using this.......


"
ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ1234567890!"£$%^&*()_+{}:@~<>?/.,#';][=-

Great! just checking all my buttons on my phone are working and they are

have a nice day"

they tend to reply with "lol hahahahaha"
Author:  IndoLair [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 5:43 pm ]
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Quote:
i like using this.......


"
ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ1234567890!"£$%^&*()_+{}:@~<>?/.,#';][=-

Great! just checking all my buttons on my phone are working and they are

have a nice day"

they tend to reply with "lol hahahahaha"
lol haha. i like this too.
Author:  Random T. [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 10:36 pm ]
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But your intention is quite transparent :p


Not if it's a genuine, passionate, improvised thing you absolutely want to do, this week, it cannot wait, and you just thought of her, let's go !

What about an infiltration into your old school to check out what has changed :roll:
(Semi illegal stuff is always fun.)
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