Hey fellas,
As much fun as it is to 'play' around, the regret i get to feel after a failed night is annoying..
Anyways, the story goes as follows. Got an invite with a friend to an event with lots of HB8-9s which was quite lucky. The deal was that we get dinner for a couple of hours and then head over to the after-party at a local club in London.
As lucky the night goes on, a really fit HB8 sits next to me at the table. I start talking, teasing, negging slightly, we got a great rhythm going on. After 30' another 2 fit ones sit on the same table so i think that's the great way to create some extra value, so i start socialising with them a bit, always keeping the one next to me in 'check'. I decide to take a first 'test' so i invite the one next to me to join me for some fresh air outside, and she accepts without second thought. We keep a great talk going on with slight flirting etc..at this point i am the top of the game, thinking this will end well.
Back to the table, and time to leave for the after-party, girl asks me to go with them. I think 'no rush', i ve set the groundwork, so i play it cool and tell her i ll wait for my friend and will catch you later, which i think annoyed her a bit. Anyway, we arrive at the club, and luck runs out
She goes to a 'restricted' area so we cant meet each other for a while. During that time she'd already met a few guys, and if you are familiar with the London club scene, things are quite aggressive, guys all over her, dancing, grabbing etc..etc..so long story short, she comes out at a point and gets me into that area with her, but the whole previous 'rapport' was out of the window, guys all around, i get side-tracked, game over. good to mention here i have the syndrome of the handsome guy with low-confidence, which is why i hate this nasty 'club scene'
What's your take on that, ie what would you have done to turn this around? was also considering if not asking for a number before the club (and say i ve not decided if coming yet etc..) was a bad move..
Keep it up guys!
p.s. the other 2 fit girls on our table turned out to be the dancers on the after-party club!! when i saw that started thinking how it would've gone if i'd invested in those two more than just 'using' them for value..overthinking again
