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Author:  itchybrother [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 1:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Using sexual words neutrally
I don't think I've seen this mentioned anywhere, but it works to an extent. Maybe it's called "Framing"?

The idea is...to use common words in a sexual, yet sly, way (such as Finger, Lay, Insert, Penetrate, etc)

Example: You're having a drink at the bar with a girl. The little toothpick umbrella might poke her hand or something. Rather than say, "oh ouch are you OK?"...you say, "Oh man...you've been penetrated". Slight pause before and after "penetrated"...for minor emphasis.

Has to be situational though. Can't just say "Wanna play pool? I'll let you touch my balls." That's just juvenile.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 3:42 pm ]
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It's called innuendo, when something you say is meant to be totally innocent & it sounds deliberately terribly sexual.
Author:  itchybrother [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 4:17 pm ]
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It's called innuendo, when something you say is meant to be totally innocent & it sounds deliberately terribly sexual.
I guess it's like an innuendo. I always considered an innuendo to be almost blatant. "Let's play pool, you can touch my balls". She says let's flip a coin..you say "you gonna give me heads?".

I'm just suggesting find a creative way to use a different word for something. I can't think of one now...it just happens naturally.
Author:  itchybrother [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 4:34 pm ]
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Now that I think about it more; I guess I'm trying to set HER up to come back with a sexual innuendo.

If you're doing something difficult, make sure to say "This is hard". Whether she uses the opportunity for a sexual comeback or not...doesn't matter at this point....the seed has already been planted in her head.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 5:03 pm ]
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Turn the things she says dirty.

If a woman leaves the sexual innuendo door open even the slightest bit I will come crashing through it like the Kool Aid Man.
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 5:06 pm ]
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If a woman leaves the sexual innuendo door open even the slightest bit I will come crashing through it like the Kool Aid Man.
Oh yeah!!!
Author:  itchybrother [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 5:35 pm ]
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Oh I've been the perverted one since 5th grade with that side of it.

It won't fly with a HB9/10 tho. So...you have to set HER up. Make HER crash through that door (if she chooses to. Either way...its in her mind now)...then you can run with it like the wind.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 5:46 pm ]
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It won't fly with a HB9/10 tho.
It will so. And it does. Why wouldn't it?
Author:  itchybrother [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 5:49 pm ]
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It won't fly with a HB9/10 tho.
It will so. And it does. Why wouldn't it?
Just a hunch. I'm at level 7+ now. Which is why I'm here...to get 8s-9s. I'm stuck at 7s.
Author:  R.C [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 5:56 pm ]
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Just a hunch. I'm at level 7+ now. Which is why I'm here...to get 8s-9s. I'm stuck at 7s.
That rating scale you got going on is probably why.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 5:57 pm ]
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It won't fly with a HB9/10 tho.
It will so. And it does. Why wouldn't it?
Just a hunch. I'm at level 7+ now. Which is why I'm here...to get 8s-9s. I'm stuck at 7s.
Are you opening 9/10's?
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 6:02 pm ]
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Just a hunch.
Guys that have a hard time with women usually operate with this type of thinking.
Author:  itchybrother [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 6:14 pm ]
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Are you opening 9/10's?
It's been a while. Never could get very far with them. Never knew how. So I've stuck with my 6s and 7s. And getting a 7 takes some work. I'm no Brad Pitt.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 28, 2016 6:27 pm ]
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Are you opening 9/10's?
It's been a while. Never could get very far with them. Never knew how. So I've stuck with my 6s and 7s. And getting a 7 takes some work. I'm no Brad Pitt.
Be the normal non Brad Pitt guy that has the balls to talk to her. And like R.C. says, stop rating girls into a harder to reach category, that's just just putting a stumbling block in your own path.

You'll never reach the goal you hold out of reach.
Author:  Autoregressive [ Tue Nov 01, 2016 6:18 am ]
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It's been a while. Never could get very far with them. Never knew how. So I've stuck with my 6s and 7s. And getting a 7 takes some work. I'm no Brad Pitt.
Where are you from? Do the women there have their "number" displayed on their forehead or something?
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