At some points as men you make fun of each other ... If a friend was like heey , how's it going , I've missed you , it's been a while , my other friend would tease me saying shit like waaaw I can't believe it someone actually misses you etc ... and ok I brush it off , it's funny . At some point I have to say something back because he keeps coming at me with them and from a couple of jokes it could escelate to amoging pretty quick ... but my mind goes blank and I end up saying nothing . Nothing quick comes to mind about laughing at a guy ... I just pause and keep thinking of shit to say ... but to no avale .