Hi, fellow pua's
So, here is my (strange) situation; I have been seeing this girl for about Three months now. We met at Tinder, and got a really good Wibe from the get-go. The conversation flowed great, and i knew she enjoyed my Company. When we said goodbye, the last thing she said were "Let us not make this the last time we meet". Sucsess. Now i could do my real Magic ! Or at least i thought.
The next date were at her Place. Things worked out well, as last time. And the time flew away. BUT, there is a big but here. I can never seem to get any oportunities to get in some KINO. I took her hand, and could feel that she wasn't really "feeling it". It didn't seem like she were uncomfortable or anything, but i just had the feeling. And when i asked her about it (stupid, i know), she said that it were because she is "slow". So in my mind i think that this means that she needs more time ?
Well... We continued the dating, and i tried KINO again, this time letting her have her legs on my lap while we were watching a Movie. I put my hands on it, and stroked it slow. She did not seem uncomfortable at all, but i really didn't get any more oportunities to escalate. It seems like she wont offer me it. If i see an opening, i am not afraid to escalate, so that is not the problem... This was the last date, and at the end of it, i got a BIG hug, and she held it very long, and pulled me in really Close. We have a New "date" planned, but now i need to step my game up. So, do you guys think this is a lost cause, or can i still fix it ? I know she loves my Company, she does not back away when i touch her, she talks in a "cute" voice when around me, and seems to always wanna talk on facebook.
Now, here is some (important) things that i need to mention;
-she got out of her first relationship, that lasted Three years, a few weeks before Meeting me(he broke up). I know she hadn't really moved on when we first met, so i knew i had to use a bit of extra time on her. But now it has gone almost 4 months since they broke up
- We talk a LOT on facebook. And she kind of craves the attention. She wants to talk for several hours every day. And wants us to go to sleep at the same time.
- She has told me that she loves me. I love you can mean two things in my Language. Either the kind of love you have for Your nearest ones, and the love you have for Your closest friends/at the start of a relationship. So the last one is the Word she used
Just had to Clear that out for you.- In one of Our latest conversations, she mentioned that her lap would be a good pillow. I capitalised, but it seems like she gets nervous/shuts herself off when it comes to real life...
-She seems to have some body-complexes (even thou she looks AMAZING), so this (or the ex), is something i think may have been the biggest walls for me to overcome.
- She has commented that Our walues are so extremely alike.
I'm sorry for the sandwich-list, guys... Just trying to explain the situation the best
But what should i do next ? I really like this girl, and i hope i can get into a serious relationship With her.