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| Author: | Erunanethiel [ Mon Mar 14, 2016 5:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP |
This one girl that our mutual friend made us meet is pissed at me. On the second date, in my car i have been teaching her how to drive a stick by holding her hand and showing which gear is which. After that when i was speeding she was always holding or hugging my arm, I was making her shift the gear to make her work for and she was having fun. But then i made the mistake of keeping on negging her even though i was at the comfort stage. And she became sad and offended. Even though i made jokes and that would bring some sunshine. I didnt want to say sorry since it would lover my value. And then we met with our mutual friend and my friend and they made say sorry to her while they were all there, but i kept on not talking to her. And then while i was dropping her off we talked in the car and we texted there after me saying, you will have to work on me a bit and she said yes i definitely do. It wasnt that bad of a convo, but when today i saw her we didnt really talk much, she offered me cookie and i wasnt really hungry, that was about it. She said to our mutual friend she still is a bit angry. Should i text her or wait for her to text? Normally at this time of the day, we would me texting. Please help Asap |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 8:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP |
Quote: This one girl that our mutual friend made us meet is pissed at me. On the second date, in my car i have been teaching her how to drive a stick by holding her hand and showing which gear is which. After that when i was speeding she was always holding or hugging my arm, I was making her shift the gear to make her work for and she was having fun. But then i made the mistake of keeping on negging her even though i was at the comfort stage. And she became sad and offended. Even though i made jokes and that would bring some sunshine. I didnt want to say sorry since it would lover my value. And then we met with our mutual friend and my friend and they made say sorry to her while they were all there, but i kept on not talking to her. And then while i was dropping her off we talked in the car and we texted there after me saying, you will have to work on me a bit and she said yes i definitely do. It wasnt that bad of a convo, but when today i saw her we didnt really talk much, she offered me cookie and i wasnt really hungry, that was about it. She said to our mutual friend she still is a bit angry. Should i text her or wait for her to text? Normally at this time of the day, we would me texting.
You need to forget all you know about "game" and once you're ready to make that commitment you can start doing it right.
Please help Asap |
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| Author: | Erunanethiel [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 11:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP |
I will meet her today after school, but she wasnt really talkative today with me in school |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Mar 15, 2016 1:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP |
Well Captain Awkward, step away from the PUA. Man up and say to her. “You’re not still mad at me, are you?" You don’t need to act cool or smooth things over. You don’t need to reassure her. She knows. Go for the hug. |
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| Author: | Erunanethiel [ Wed Mar 16, 2016 8:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP |
She told her friends i was rude and i probably do it just for sex. Should i invest in her to make her comfortable, or should bait on try make her invest? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Mar 16, 2016 8:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP |
Stop being so 'gamey", she can smell it. Just let her know, like "Hey I was kind of an asshole the other day, let's go______." |
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| Author: | Erunanethiel [ Sat Mar 19, 2016 12:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP |
We were walking arm in arm today. Then when i was dropping her off, she wanted me to go a bit past her house so her dad wouldnt see. And i did. When I got home i asked her via text if he has seen me. She said that he told him we are friends. And I said just friends? She said yeah I dont know yet. I said i couldnt stay if we were only going to be friends. And that would make me sad. She said it was too early to talk about those now. And changed the subject. I think i have come off as needy. What should I do to gain value back? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Mar 21, 2016 1:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP |
Quote: What should I do to gain value back?
Shut up a minute.
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Mar 21, 2016 3:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP |
You did not "come off" needy. You are needy. |
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| Author: | kidfromcro [ Sat May 07, 2016 9:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP |
why would saying sorry lower your value,you should have said sorry that was a bad joke and then go for joking a little bit,she is also human you know |
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