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| Author: | FDay [ Sat Feb 13, 2016 12:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re-initiating Contact |
Hey mates, Been a while since my last post here, almost 2 years. It was about a girl, HB9, in my class whom I like. Long story short, we used to text a lot & so much that I was kinda being put in the friend zone. So, I asked for advice from you guys & thanks to you that I took the right decision to take a step back & stop contact with her. She did ask me if something was wrong multiple times but I kept conversations light & didn't give her any reason (can't just say 'I stopped contact because you friendzoned me'). After asking me like this for a few times, she just gave up & didn't bother me much, just the normal amount of interaction that couldn't have been avoided because of being in the same class. Taking that decision changed things for good. At first, it was hard because I still had to see her face everyday in class. But I was in control & things got better with time. I even got involved with another girl in the middle which also helped a lot. But that didn't last either, I wasn't that attracted to this girl anyway. Now after 2 years, HB9 is trying to re-established contact as it seems. She knocks me on fb (we used to chat a lot through fb when we were in good contact) sometimes & starts small talk. In class, she seems to be nicer too. Last week, out of nowhere she gave me a sketchbook (I like to sketch & she knows it). It seems like she is dropping cues for me to re-initiate contact. But I can't figure out if she is still interested as a friend & wants all that attention, or she wants something more. Even though now I am in control & not overly obsessed with her as before, I still like this girl. She is dropping hints but I can't just run at full speed towards her which will give away my value & put me in the friendzone again. What shall my strategy be from here, what do you guys think about the whole thing in general? |
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| Author: | NightSky [ Sat Feb 13, 2016 10:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Re-initiating Contact |
I would push for a meet up with as little conversation as possible. Then run seduction. Isolate and close. Because it sounds like you've already built up the comfort. Now you can just sweep her off her feet. |
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| Author: | FDay [ Sun Feb 14, 2016 6:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Re-initiating Contact |
Well there is a still a lot of tension between us because of no contact for such a long time. Any suggestion on how to remove this tension or is this tension good for seduction? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Mar 01, 2016 4:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Re-initiating Contact |
Quote: Well there is a still a lot of tension between us because of no contact for such a long time. Any suggestion on how to remove this tension or is this tension good for seduction?
If it's sexual tension yes. Build on it. Get sexual.
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