PUA Forum :: Did I just ruin my chances with her?

I don't really have a problem with the friend line, but more with how you handled her reaction. Way to be average and not stand out.

Women want to be desired, that doesn't mean they like horndogs. Not those who act like horndogs anyway.

Newsflash! I'm a man.

LOL

Why do you have to creep her out with the bringing her friend thing? Were you literally expecting her friend to pay for flights to just have a threesome to make you happy?

You're sabotaging yourself yet again.

Why can't you just suggest to get together for a drink when she arrives in the city. You're like the worst PUA ever.

So I have already posted about this HB10 who lives in other country but I didnt meet her because I flaked.

Anyway.. We kept talking and last Monday she said :

- Hey... I am coming to your City next month... With my friends
- Oh that's very welcome news. Hmmm I am laying on my bed right now, really falling asleep
- You should get some rest then
- wanna hop in? I could use a cuddle buddy now

- You're very daring for someone in a sleepwalking State, aren't you?
- In fact... There is room for two more if you want to bring a friend

- I knew you would say that one day. Don't be a jerk lol
- Hey... This is hilarious. Newsflash, i'm a man!!
- I know you are and you like to tease. I guess your friends are really Nice too. And I think they wouldnt tease me this way. Now have a good night and sweet dreams
- Lol maybe... Thanks.. My bed feels great right now
- Enjoy

She didn't say anything else and this convo happened 5 days ago. I think she is freezing me out
Damn she is coming to my City.. Did I ruin my chances with her?

Did I just ruin my chances with her?

Quote:

- You're very daring for someone in a sleepwalking State, aren't you?
- In fact... There is room for two more if you want to bring a friend

She didn't say anything else and this convo happened 5 days ago. I think she is freezing me out
Damn she is coming to my City.. Did I ruin my chances with her?

1. Seriously, concentrate on girls who don't live across an international border.
2. SPAM call her. Send her another message. Tell her you're going to do some awesome things when she comes, but don't tell her what they are. If she doesn't answer, then you know for sure she's not interested. Then move on to girls who live in the same country as you

This is hilarious. Newsflash, i'm a man!!

Quote:

So here is a little update.
She has deleted me off SPAM and blocked me in Instagram.
I decided to text her today. I did. I sent her a message about her football team, nothing related to our previous convo.

Right after I sent that, she replied "I am a little upset with you" , I asked why and she said she had no plans to have a hookup or let alone a threesome with me. I told her I never intended to have a threesome with her, told her I was joking and even tried to be flirty a little, but she also said "I could be flirty as well, but I won't". She also said "I find you very interesting and attractive but you have to understand that, as someone who was really planning to meet you in person, I was a little scared when you joked about that".

I talked to her a little more then I ended the conversation first, by saying happy NYE and she said "Likewise, wish you joy, prosperity and health in 2016".

She didn't add my number back to her contacts because I can't see her picture in SPAM.

Should I try harder? Should I give up?

Author:	Jack1982 [ Fri Dec 25, 2015 1:25 pm ]
Post subject:	Did I just ruin my chances with her?
So I have already posted about this HB10 who lives in other country but I didnt meet her because I flaked. Anyway.. We kept talking and last Monday she said : - Hey... I am coming to your City next month... With my friends - Oh that's very welcome news. Hmmm I am laying on my bed right now, really falling asleep - You should get some rest then - wanna hop in? I could use a cuddle buddy now - You're very daring for someone in a sleepwalking State, aren't you? - In fact... There is room for two more if you want to bring a friend - I knew you would say that one day. Don't be a jerk lol - Hey... This is hilarious. Newsflash, i'm a man!! - I know you are and you like to tease. I guess your friends are really Nice too. And I think they wouldnt tease me this way. Now have a good night and sweet dreams - Lol maybe... Thanks.. My bed feels great right now - Enjoy She didn't say anything else and this convo happened 5 days ago. I think she is freezing me out Damn she is coming to my City.. Did I ruin my chances with her?

Author:	Dragula [ Fri Dec 25, 2015 7:54 pm ]
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Why do you have to creep her out with the bringing her friend thing? Were you literally expecting her friend to pay for flights to just have a threesome to make you happy? You're sabotaging yourself yet again. Why can't you just suggest to get together for a drink when she arrives in the city. You're like the worst PUA ever.

Author:	R.C [ Sat Dec 26, 2015 7:31 am ]
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I don't really have a problem with the friend line, but more with how you handled her reaction. Way to be average and not stand out. Women want to be desired, that doesn't mean they like horndogs. Not those who act like horndogs anyway. Newsflash! I'm a man. LOL

Author:	oceanx [ Sat Dec 26, 2015 8:49 am ]
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Most of my posts these days consist of this revolutionary texting advice: "Lets get a drink" OP you're making it harder than it needs to be.

Author:	Jack1982 [ Sat Dec 26, 2015 6:25 pm ]
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Quote: I don't really have a problem with the friend line, but more with how you handled her reaction. Way to be average and not stand out. Women want to be desired, that doesn't mean they like horndogs. Not those who act like horndogs anyway. Newsflash! I'm a man. LOL I know it was a lame answer but I couldn't think of anything better. She is a very polite girl so I don't know if she was shutting me out or not.

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Author:	Jack1982 [ Mon Dec 28, 2015 12:07 am ]
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Quote: Why do you have to creep her out with the bringing her friend thing? Were you literally expecting her friend to pay for flights to just have a threesome to make you happy? You're sabotaging yourself yet again. Why can't you just suggest to get together for a drink when she arrives in the city. You're like the worst PUA ever. I thought she would realize i was joking ... I just saw she deleted me off SPAM. I guess I screwed up but she should have a better sense of humor

Author:	ChocolatePUA [ Mon Dec 28, 2015 7:21 pm ]
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Quote: So I have already posted about this HB10 who lives in other country but I didnt meet her because I flaked. Anyway.. We kept talking and last Monday she said : - Hey... I am coming to your City next month... With my friends - Oh that's very welcome news. Hmmm I am laying on my bed right now, really falling asleep - You should get some rest then - wanna hop in? I could use a cuddle buddy now - You're very daring for someone in a sleepwalking State, aren't you? - In fact... There is room for two more if you want to bring a friend - I knew you would say that one day. Don't be a jerk lol - Hey... This is hilarious. Newsflash, i'm a man!! - I know you are and you like to tease. I guess your friends are really Nice too. And I think they wouldnt tease me this way. Now have a good night and sweet dreams - Lol maybe... Thanks.. My bed feels great right now - Enjoy She didn't say anything else and this convo happened 5 days ago. I think she is freezing me out Damn she is coming to my City.. Did I ruin my chances with her? 1. Seriously, concentrate on girls who don't live across an international border. 2. SPAM call her. Send her another message. Tell her you're going to do some awesome things when she comes, but don't tell her what they are. If she doesn't answer, then you know for sure she's not interested. Then move on to girls who live in the same country as you

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Dec 28, 2015 8:54 pm ]
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Quote: Did I just ruin my chances with her? Yes, for eternity.

Author:	Jack1982 [ Mon Dec 28, 2015 9:17 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: So I have already posted about this HB10 who lives in other country but I didnt meet her because I flaked. Anyway.. We kept talking and last Monday she said : - Hey... I am coming to your City next month... With my friends - Oh that's very welcome news. Hmmm I am laying on my bed right now, really falling asleep - You should get some rest then - wanna hop in? I could use a cuddle buddy now - You're very daring for someone in a sleepwalking State, aren't you? - In fact... There is room for two more if you want to bring a friend - I knew you would say that one day. Don't be a jerk lol - Hey... This is hilarious. Newsflash, i'm a man!! - I know you are and you like to tease. I guess your friends are really Nice too. And I think they wouldnt tease me this way. Now have a good night and sweet dreams - Lol maybe... Thanks.. My bed feels great right now - Enjoy She didn't say anything else and this convo happened 5 days ago. I think she is freezing me out Damn she is coming to my City.. Did I ruin my chances with her? 1. Seriously, concentrate on girls who don't live across an international border. 2. SPAM call her. Send her another message. Tell her you're going to do some awesome things when she comes, but don't tell her what they are. If she doesn't answer, then you know for sure she's not interested. Then move on to girls who live in the same country as you She is not the only girl I am gaming but she is super hot and she was coming to my City só why not? I just thought she would be clever enough to understand my sense of humor

Author:	oceanx [ Tue Dec 29, 2015 3:02 am ]
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Quote: This is hilarious. Newsflash, i'm a man!! The bitter overtone in this text is where it was lost.

Author:	R.C [ Tue Dec 29, 2015 9:06 am ]
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That wasn't humor. That was you fishing for validation with a transparent joke overlay. She saw right through it.

Author:	Jack1982 [ Thu Dec 31, 2015 9:54 pm ]
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Quote: I don't really have a problem with the friend line, but more with how you handled her reaction. Way to be average and not stand out. Women want to be desired, that doesn't mean they like horndogs. Not those who act like horndogs anyway. Newsflash! I'm a man. LOL So here is a little update. She has deleted me off SPAM and blocked me in Instagram. I decided to text her today. I did. I sent her a message about her football team, nothing related to our previous convo. Right after I sent that, she replied "I am a little upset with you" , I asked why and she said she had no plans to have a hookup or let alone a threesome with me. I told her I never intended to have a threesome with her, told her I was joking and even tried to be flirty a little, but she also said "I could be flirty as well, but I won't". She also said "I find you very interesting and attractive but you have to understand that, as someone who was really planning to meet you in person, I was a little scared when you joked about that". I talked to her a little more then I ended the conversation first, by saying happy NYE and she said "Likewise, wish you joy, prosperity and health in 2016". She didn't add my number back to her contacts because I can't see her picture in SPAM. Should I try harder? Should I give up?

Author:	Darkie [ Thu Dec 31, 2015 11:07 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: I don't really have a problem with the friend line, but more with how you handled her reaction. Way to be average and not stand out. Women want to be desired, that doesn't mean they like horndogs. Not those who act like horndogs anyway. Newsflash! I'm a man. LOL So here is a little update. She has deleted me off SPAM and blocked me in Instagram. I decided to text her today. I did. I sent her a message about her football team, nothing related to our previous convo. Right after I sent that, she replied "I am a little upset with you" , I asked why and she said she had no plans to have a hookup or let alone a threesome with me. I told her I never intended to have a threesome with her, told her I was joking and even tried to be flirty a little, but she also said "I could be flirty as well, but I won't". She also said "I find you very interesting and attractive but you have to understand that, as someone who was really planning to meet you in person, I was a little scared when you joked about that". I talked to her a little more then I ended the conversation first, by saying happy NYE and she said "Likewise, wish you joy, prosperity and health in 2016". She didn't add my number back to her contacts because I can't see her picture in SPAM. Should I try harder? Should I give up? You can see a picture weather you have her added or not. She prob blocked you and thats why you cant see it. She was still interested and even said it. You just didnt apologize enough or rebuild the comfort back. Anyway forget about her already. She lives in another country!

Author:	R.C [ Mon Jan 04, 2016 12:55 pm ]
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You're wasting your time dude. Granted that threesome thing wasn't the smartest thing to do but holy shit. She blocked you for that? It's not like you insulted her entire bloodline, lol. I don't know dude. You've wasted so much time on this chick you might as well see it through. Just text that you didn't intend to offend her with that arguably very lame joke. In my opinion she's way too uptight, but then again who knows. Your call. However I would hold my breath on hooking up with her.

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