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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 10:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Softening up the target ? |
So let's say , I go up to a target who is wayy too tired or a target that I met before and built atraction with and is unfortunately not in the mood .. what do I do ? Do I try my best routines ? Do I lower my energy ? If I am atracted to a woman I see frequently but who is never in the mood to be aproached I couldn't just let her slip just because I see her at the wrong time .. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Tue Nov 03, 2015 3:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
Do you in a genuine manner. Hopefully the "you" that you're doing is that of a confident person with good male energy. Don't gauge her energy before approaching. If anything have her rise to your level of energy; it happens all the time. Quote: Do I try my best routines ?
I would avoid this mentality just simply because it makes you feel like you are there to "perform" in some way for the girl. Like I mentioned, do you, and let the chips fall.
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Sat Nov 07, 2015 5:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
"-you lost the game !! hmmm I wonder what you owe me ... - Hmmm I don't know , a slap to the face or a punch " Raising her energy level seems pretty hard to me :p |
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| Author: | Finished [ Sat Nov 07, 2015 5:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
Hope this isn't a troll... It's pretty simple mate, if you already met her before then just go over and see what's up. She might change her tone the moment you speak to her if she likes you. If she doesn't you can try cheer her up or just go speak to another girl if she actually starts blanking you. Chances are if she notices you doing that she'll realise what she was missing out on and find some other way to speak to you later. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Sat Nov 07, 2015 5:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
If she notices me doing what ? trying to cheer her up could lead me to the friendzons right ? |
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| Author: | Finished [ Sat Nov 07, 2015 6:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
lol... If she see's you speaking to other girls and generally not giving a fuck she will be more compelled to want you. Not necessarily. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Sat Nov 07, 2015 8:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
How can I cheer her up without falling into the friendzone ?once she was so angry and sad , she completely ignored me .. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Nov 07, 2015 8:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
Quote: How can I cheer her up without falling into the friendzone ?once she was so angry and sad , she completely ignored me ..
For fuck sake. You're the mental mastubation King chode |
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| Author: | Finished [ Sat Nov 07, 2015 9:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
Lmfao. I swear he's trolling. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Sun Nov 08, 2015 3:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
??? guys What am I saying ? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Nov 08, 2015 6:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
Quote: ??? guys What am I saying ?
Finally, a good question |
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| Author: | Style981 [ Sun Nov 08, 2015 8:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
Honestly if a girl is in a bad (like really bad) mood, there's very little you can do, specially when she's really not in a mood to get approached. But still, if that seems to be the only girl you can find, go with a higher energy level than the girl and try to offer her the value instead of taking from her. Also be mentality ready to face the worst bitch shield ever (that usually happens when girl is in the bad mood). Hopefully that helps. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Fri Nov 13, 2015 2:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
Well she isn't answering my texts , and she never really accepts to go out with me but she isn't rejecting . She accepts my kisses on her cheek and has never stated she isn't interested . I can't move forward but I am not moving backwards , I don't really know what's her deal .. "Me : I know this cute girl and I want to ask her out on a date but whenever I ask her out she seems so busy . What do I do ? " Hb : hmmm donnow , comme with me to class " She understood I was talking about her , I told her the other day I wasn't going to stop untill she admited to me that she was a lesbien and she started laughing ... How do I soften her up and move this forward ? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Nov 13, 2015 3:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
You could try to refrain from stalking her. She is never going to fuck you, you are nothing more than an orbiter. A guy that wants to sleep with his female friend. A guy who secretly loves his female 'friend', and may go out of his way to accommodate her (couch-mover). Either you were shot-down early on and was placed in the friend-zone, or you never had the balls to ask her out and inadvertently placed yourself in the friend-zone forever. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Fri Nov 13, 2015 4:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Softening up the target ? |
I have barely spoken to her there is no way I was late to ask her out . We are not friends , we barely know each other .I am not stalking her , when I see her I sometimes speak to her sometimes I don't . I only texted her twice ... first time she answered .On the rare occasions I spoke to her I mentioned she was attractive and I have never forgot to kino her . There is just no way I am the orbiter .Asked some friends about this one , apparently she has never had a boyfriend btw |
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