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| Author: | takky [ Sat Oct 31, 2015 6:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Comfort questions |
Hi guys, I wonder if you have some favorite question which you ask to connect with girl. Do you use some line to get into deep conversation? My favorite line is: "So, what do you live for?" (if she doesn't know how to answer or what you mean) "What are you thinking about before you go to sleep and after you wake up?" After that I usually transit to talking about our lives and about what we value and pursue. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sun Nov 01, 2015 9:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Comfort questions |
That's really nice. Ty. I don't like framing things as "comfort stage" "attraction stage" or whatever but basically to have the girl talking about stuff, I ask about dreams, childhood etc. Just interesting subjects like the one you mentioned. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Nov 01, 2015 11:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Comfort questions |
When I 1st started, I used to use "what is your life story?" So lame. I don't know what I was thinking. Probably because I felt like she would take the pressure away from me doing the talking |
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| Author: | takky [ Sun Nov 01, 2015 8:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Comfort questions |
Quote: Probably because I felt like she would take the pressure away from me doing the talking
I know this  Now I'm just comfortable talking about me, so I really don't need her to answer with some story. Rather than that I use this to spike her interest in conversation as I am indicating that it's also about her.
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| Author: | oceanx [ Mon Nov 02, 2015 12:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Comfort questions |
When you're one on one with the girl alone it's good to have her talking OP. |
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| Author: | Tidal_ [ Tue Nov 03, 2015 5:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Comfort questions |
Personally, the c1, c2 ,A, etc.... seems a bit outdated though i may be echoing other guys here. i feel like stacks are a pretty decent fallback. i genuinely just call everything after fluff rapport. personal rule of thumb is cold read, rather than ask questions but This has worked for me: - pick out anything about her that is somewhat unique, hair, accent, eyes, something she brought up earlier, etc... point it out then "you dont seem like your from around here, are you?" or "you have an exotic ( context appropriate hand gestures) look to you, your not from around here" phrase these as cold read style statements. Even when literally everything about her screams local, or boring, they always respond curiously. Love it when they say they are local, average, etc.... I reply, "funny, i would have pegged you as a ( exciting location) girl/chick. look disappointed, then fraction ( look away kind of like in a lovers spat). more often than not, she slaps at you, reaches out, or qualifies herself. conversation either goes to her rearing elsewhere or childhood where you are. |
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