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| Author: | chi31fan35 [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 1:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Player Girl at Dance Club |
I go to this dance club once or twice a week for the past several weeks. Have built up really good social proof, have girls constantly hit on me, etc. There's this one girl there who is there often and she has guys hanging all over her. My strategy has been to act aloof, talk to her for a couple minutes at a time, then go and social proof. I want to make a move now, but am unsure the best approach at this point. What do you guys think for a girl who has a ton of orbiters? (And orbiters who are constantly around.) |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 2:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Player Girl at Dance Club |
Dance with her and spin her away from the chodes People should really concentrate on meeting girls. Instead of finding one specific girl that you have no idea if she likes you or not This is a numbers game. The fact that you made a thread about makes it more pressured when it comes to the crunch. No attachment to outcome. Be free, find the sexually available girls that are into you. Approach girls the same way. Nobody is special. No matter how many orbiters she is collecting. I don't think I've ever slept with a girl that solely I had my eye on the entire night. She will be just 1 out of 10 girls that will probably hook up with me. She is replaceable. She isn't unique. |
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| Author: | chi31fan35 [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 3:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Player Girl at Dance Club |
I've already danced with her a few times. Problem is she dances with all the dudes and goes one by one. It's time for isolation but my experience in mixed sets is relatively low. I have to disarm the orbiters then isolate and I don't know how to do that. Been able to isolate her to my group once but she was having such trouble hearing them she bounced, then tried to isolate her just me and her and she resisted. Gaming other girls but she's the one I'm most interested in in this particular venue. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 3:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Player Girl at Dance Club |
Quote: I've already danced with her a few times. Problem is she dances with all the dudes and goes one by one. It's time for isolation but my experience in mixed sets is relatively low..
Dance with her, attract her, take her to the bar for a drink, outside for a 'fresh air' - Let the following orbiters cock block themselves, Why are you worried about disarming them? Take her away from them. I don't think even they are that dumb to follow you both, you can still get a phone number. This isn't even a sticking point. It's all speculation till you approach her and actually come across hurdles. It's like you're inventing obstacles. Quote: Been able to isolate her to my group You don't need todo this, maintain sexual tension instead and lead it to the goal. Put yourselves in a bubble where everything outside including the orbiters are invisible.Enough with the social proof gambits and introducing her verbally to your friends in a very loud night club. You're neglecting the raw sexual energy and escalation windows. |
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| Author: | chi31fan35 [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 3:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Player Girl at Dance Club |
Thanks Dragula. What I needed to hear. |
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