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Author:  qwertyking121212 [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 11:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Confrontation & Recovery

Hey all,

Right - met a girl online, we're both mid-30's. 1st date ok, 2nd date disaster - tips needed to recover as I really like her, shes a 9 and personality wise a 9 for me to...

Met online
I was pretty forward and confident, arranged a 1st date.

1st date
Drinks, too many drinks - so ran out of time for dinner. She calls me when she's home and says she had a lovey time. The date was lots of chat about her, I asked her about her, her family. Good amount of kino, she kino-ed me. No kiss.

2nd date
Dinner near her place. Conversation moved on to religion - I made the mistake of going with it and coming across a bit stupid - uneducated. She was a bit annoyed. Fed up and wanted to get away. Spent time on her phone. We left and I grabbed the train back to mine.

I get a text an hour later...
Her: apologizing for her brashness.
Me: I love an argument and could argue in an empty room.
Her: I hope I didn't offend. Good night.
Me: Yes you did and I hope I did in return ;)

So - I really like her. I love an argumentative girl. But what's my next play. 1. Be honest and say I like her and we should hang out. 2. Play it cool...

Genuinely I'm lost...

Author:  Cdharders [ Thu Jun 11, 2015 7:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Confrontation & Recovery

Stay off topics like religion and politics unless you can appreciate her perspective even if it is not your own.

Don't send any more messages about the argument. Burn that memory as much as possible by never bringing up the topics and changing topics when it is brought up.

Unless she messages first, wait 4 days, then send "How's your [day of the week] ?"

Set up another time to see her and don't bring up the argument.

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