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| Author: | CialdrinD [ Wed Apr 29, 2015 2:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Number Closed a Model! Start texting but Need Help! |
So I number closed a model and first she didn't reply to my couple of texts but then she did! So we start texting and building rapport, flirting and some nice banter! I invited her for a coffee, she said she would but is leaving town! She is probably telling the truth because she mentioned it earlier when i opened her in a mall few days ago! So my thing is she is leaving town for about 10 days! How do I keep this stuff going? I really need some help in order to not to fade this away and get to meet me! How should i play this? Keep this talk going? |
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| Author: | DominicKrow [ Wed Apr 29, 2015 12:23 pm ] |
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I guess she's too busy so don't be annoying! "Good morning, have a nice day", "Good night" and so on. If she won't start the conversations herself, leave it for 2-3 days and see what happened |
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| Author: | CialdrinD [ Wed Apr 29, 2015 1:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Number Closed a Model! Start texting but Need Help! |
lol! Yes sir! |
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| Author: | Chris Bale [ Tue May 05, 2015 10:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Number Closed a Model! Start texting but Need Help! |
You say she is a model. This seems to REALLY please your ego. You want it too much. Let it go. Otherwise your desperateness will fuck it up. Understand that she is a model. She knows she is hot. Her job basically tells her all day. If this is all you can offer her then there is no reason or value for her to meet you in the future. Very good looking girls want guys who appreciate this, but do not focus on it, do not need it, and are not intimidated about it. You seem to be looking for all the right things to do to win her. Let me ask you this...what has she proven to you? What about her other than the fact she is hot enough to fuck, makes you genuinely want to meet her again? If you know, then awesome, but if it is only because of how hot she is, then I gotta be honest and let you know you are not offerring her any substance to see you or experience you again. I dont know how you guys interacted, but i am just covering this part as its essential to mention. In terms of texting...my main goal of texting is ONLY to organize a meet up, not to talk bullshit. You should keep the getting to know each other stuff for the meeting in person. Also texting too much kills sexual tension and destroys suspense, excitement and mysteriousness. So make sure you really only focus on using texting to set a date. In terms of what i text, it is the same as my overall vibe i interact with women, i keep it light, sexually playful, without pressure or needing. I couldnt care less wether she chooses to meet me or not, which is why i send girls ridiculous pictures of cats wearing swimsuits. it seperates you from the regimental and over serious guys who are really all about getting laid and needing it! Create the seperation as a cool guys she can hang out with, with zero pressure...then when you meet, you seduce and charm her! Good luck mate Chris |
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| Author: | CialdrinD [ Thu May 07, 2015 10:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Number Closed a Model! Start texting but Need Help! |
Actually i've realized that my texting game sucks and i've tried a few different things! It's not liking i text them everyday or something! But I try to create hooks and it doesn't work! Maybe sometimes it can fall to kind of interaction i've had which not necessarily was mind blowing! But even where i've had some good conversations, build some rapport, I haven't been able to have good texts! So I think my purpose for this post was to look for a quick fix, maybe to feed my ego! Anyways, I would love some pointers, if you can give some! How do you use that cat thingy? like "my friend just texted me this pic and she wants to go swimming or work on her tan with this cat!" |
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| Author: | Chris Bale [ Thu May 07, 2015 11:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Number Closed a Model! Start texting but Need Help! |
I send pictures of stupid shit i find funny. I keep the texting the same as I am in my in-person interaction with them. Playful, light, no pressure, no big deal. Mainly you should not be putting pressure on her, as that is a sign of your possible neediness and dependance on outcome, which girls hate from guys. They much prefer to be around a guy they are chilling with and flirting in a laid back way, where sex just happens "naturally", rather than the guy trying to force it to happen. Basically, chill, stop taking this so seriously and do everything right. Saying stuff like "i think you should totally take me out for a drink, but your not allowed hit on me too much, im not a piece of meat. When suits you? It will be fun" Its easy, and chill, including humour. MAKE IT EASY FOR GIRLS TO BE WITH YOU WITHOUT PRESSURE OF OUTCOME AND YOU WILL BE SURROUNDED BY WOMEN! |
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| Author: | CialdrinD [ Thu May 07, 2015 11:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Number Closed a Model! Start texting but Need Help! |
I totally hear you and for couple of months my focus has been on enjoying myself in the field and say the stupidiest shit! And focus on process rather than the outcome! But i guess my ego comes in and wants results! You're right you have to value yourself and show it to everybody! But sometimes you just run out of things to say and all those fears starts to crawl back! haha |
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| Author: | DrewDating [ Fri May 08, 2015 12:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Number Closed a Model! Start texting but Need Help! |
Quote: Actually i've realized that my texting game sucks and i've tried a few different things! It's not liking i text them everyday or something! But I try to create hooks and it doesn't work! Maybe sometimes it can fall to kind of interaction i've had which not necessarily was mind blowing!
think of text game as a tool, this tool's only job is to figure out logistics to meet up with her again. the comfort should already be there, the attraction should come before the number but can also come after depending how you number closed her. either way keep the conversations short or you will be TextZoned.
But even where i've had some good conversations, build some rapport, I haven't been able to have good texts! So I think my purpose for this post was to look for a quick fix, maybe to feed my ego! Anyways, I would love some pointers, if you can give some! How do you use that cat thingy? like "my friend just texted me this pic and she wants to go swimming or work on her tan with this cat!" |
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