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| Author: | Plagued0ctor [ Mon Apr 13, 2015 2:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | did i mess up a tinder dates, possibility to recover? |
I hope I posted this in the right forum... -SKIP TO END IF YOU WANT TO KNOW WHERE I WENT WRONG- So i go on this dates with girl from tinder who is a solid 9. i talk to her for like 2-3 days figured she's too hot for me but end up giving her my number and we begin texted. i invite her out 2 days later and it begins. Hot as hell and i go pick her up from the coffee shop where she works. I hang out with her while she closes down before our date begins and we get out by 9 pm. i chat with her and her co-workers and made the moment feel like I've knew them for years. We leave, I DHV by having my own car and drive her to play pool. we buy a few drinks while playing and talking. everything is smooth. we chat while driving i do kino like to she had hands and bracelet, not creepy at all. we drive grab food and walk at this point is around 11. Convo is great, hot chick, natural inner pimp is present. we laugh and joke are much similar in every way. talk about our futures dates when and where. WHERE I THINK I WENT WRONG. drive her home. I NEVER EXPECTED THIS. She grabs my gum int he car and i went to give her a hug goodbye. i somehow and up making out with her and it got intense for like 5-10 seconds. she leaves the car and go home. it didn't seem awkward. i drive home text her this "I had tons of fun tonight, thank you for coming. next time lets really make out. Have a good night hun, talk to you soon." not reply back. thats fine. send her a text like around 9 to say "lets grab some food tomorrow or wednesday". just to test the waters. i feel like i fucked up at the kiss but mainly at the text. Did she get buyers remorse or something. I'm like 90% sure she went for the kiss. any opinions or advice? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Apr 13, 2015 2:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: did i mess up a tinder dates, possibility to recover? |
Chill out a bit, man. Leave the ball in her court. If she made out with you, you've got good reason to think she's interested. Relax. Live your life. The text afterwards wasn't great. And suggesting to meet up the next day is a little aggressive - but don't beat yourself up. CALM wins here. Just dial it back and be a little more casual and a little less into her. |
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| Author: | JHA91 [ Mon Apr 13, 2015 3:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: did i mess up a tinder dates, possibility to recover? |
Hey mate, It's possible you're texting her too soon/too frequently. The first text after you'd wrapped the night up was alright though. Focus on gaming a few other girls until she gets back to you. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Apr 28, 2015 11:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: did i mess up a tinder dates, possibility to recover? |
You fucked up by doubling texting. 5-10 second make out? Are you a good kisser? Would you say? Dude.. This goes for you and everyone else.. YOU NEVER have to text a girl more than once, EVER. She will respond if interested, and even if misses it she'll get curious and wonder where you went. Whatever you do man.. Please do not contact her again. And I personally think " I had a lot of fun" text are the most feminine text in the world. Of course I had a lot of fun. I made the fun. I am the fun. I'd be having fun whether I was playing pool by myself or with the girl. Thats lot a roller coaster growing a mouth an telling you " I had a lot of fun" after you get off. |
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