Quote: Hey guys I'm fairly new to this need a bit of help.
I go to university and in one of my classes there was this hb9 that kept looking at me and smiling. She would constantly stare and sometimes catch me starring. I decided to approach her and since I'm new I used the mystery method I assumed a2 to be completed because I had gotten ioi's (right?). I used a direct opener saying "hey I just wanted to let you know you looked really elegant and I wanted to come say hi (gamblers approach)" she says thanks and immediately complements me and asks if I come to class from work. Anyways we hit it off turns out she pretty much qualified herself. Anything k would say she would jump at and try to build rapport. I got her number in under 10 minutes.
Waited a couple days and texted her. First she waited a really long time before answering but as it got later in the night she started texting faster. I tried to throw in a little sexual escalation but she completely ignored it. She asked me how old I was (21) I told her and she told me she had just turned (24). I decided to friend zone her before she did that to me ... I said too bad you're older I would've asked you out but we can still be friends. She agreed but continued to build rapport.
Wtf do I do now??? I'm seeing her this Thursday
Friend zoning her before she friend zones you has to be the most retarded concept i've heard relating to women. R.C. made a great analogy when he said, " Thats like killing yourself because you think someone is about to kill you". As a man if you're going make a decision, you stand by it. Your word is all you have. So if you friend zone a girl, you mean it. And you stick to being her friend.
Age is no where near as relevant as you think. Your maturity level will mean a lot more than your physical age. Would a chick care if you made one million dollars a year working for mickie dee's vs making minimum wage working for Google? The age is the external. You get through that easy as she gets to know you.
I've been with women of all ages. Younger girls are usually only good for a couple lays and then I move on. I tend to only take older women serious unless i come across a young girl who's maturity is beyond her age.
Anyway, on Thursday just go for seducing like normal. A girl can only friend zone you if you make her feel friend. Based on the way you interact with her and/or your lack of escalation. A woman doesn't friend zone you, you friend zone yourself. She just reflects what you make her feel.
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