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| Author: | nathanlol28 [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 2:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help me out guys ASAP |
Hey guys help me out please I have this girl I'm talking to but it's complicated because one day she's seems really interested in Me and some days she's not that interested in me what should I do ? What does this mean ? Because I mean I feel like she does like me |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 3:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me out guys ASAP |
Quote: Hey guys help me out please I have this girl I'm talking to but it's complicated because one day she's seems really interested in Me and some days she's not that interested in me what should I do ? What does this mean ? Because I mean I feel like she does like me
You're going to need to do better than that if you want solid advice. There are almost no details here. What are you ages? What is your history? Does she know you exist? How do you know her? Why haven't you just asked her out? Several others... Be more detailed please. No one can help you until you are. |
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| Author: | nathanlol28 [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 4:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me out guys ASAP |
yeah your right so here goes the whole story okay. Were both 20 years old in college which is where i met her couple of days ago when i had a schedule change which got me a new class and the teacher ended up putting me in front of her so she sits behind me. And since the first day i noticed that the guys that sit near her are always giving her compliments like you have nice eyes or i like your smile etc.. so the 2nd day i grew balls to talk to her and we hit it off the bat we were having a lot of fun talking and she was paying more attention to me then the guys around her and since i've had some experience with girls before i started throwing some negs there and here in the conversation which surprised her and she started to playfully hit me and laughing so after the class we left to go to her locker and seemed like she was having a blast talking to me and was walking super close to me untill we got to her locker then i left home. The 3rd day was the same except this time after class she told me to walk with her which i did and we went to her locker and i ended up taking her all the way were her car is and we kept talking and it seemed like shes didn't want to leave for some reason and after 10 more minutes of talking i told her i was gonna leave so i left. Then the 4th day she was netrual showed like no interest in me but she was talking with me in class and asking question about the problems even though she knows i didn't get the problem and after the lass i didn't walk her anymore because she went out the door so fast. Then the 5th day everything went back to normal she was having fun with me and i walked her again and today was the 6th day and she was acting like she was acting on the 4th day with little or no interest is this like a pattern for her because i feel like she does like me. By the way she does stare at me sometimes between classes but im not really sure on what to from this point on |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 4:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me out guys ASAP |
See - extra details are good. You're being thick. Day 3 she wanted you to make a move or escalate. You didn't. So you got the cold shoulder on day 4. Same deal the next time. Stop being thick. You don't get unlimited chances. In fact I'm surprised you got a second chance. |
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| Author: | nathanlol28 [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 4:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me out guys ASAP |
This is where i get stuck should i ask her to hang out ? And if i do how do i ask her i don't want to come off like a loser by asking her the wrong way? Should i start to kino escalate ? because we do playfull push each other around and stuff should i escalate more ? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 12:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me out guys ASAP |
Quote: This is where i get stuck should i ask her to hang out ?
And if i do how do i ask her i don't want to come off like a loser by asking her the wrong way? Should i start to kino escalate ? because we do playfull push each other around and stuff should i escalate more ? Ok you're a noob - and that's fine. Welcome to the forum. Escalate, yes. You need to go beyond play punching, obviously. Hand on the small of her back, touching hair and face. Escalate to holding her hand and putting your arm around her... Escalate from there to kissing and making out, etc. As for asking her out - do this concurrently with escalation (you need to get her out alone with you to escalate anyway). Don't make it sound like a date though. You want to playfully banter with her a bit and then drop something like: "I know what you'd like to do tonight... You'd like to buy me a drink!" Some don'ts: -Don't tell her you like her -Don't tell her you want to date her The female mind doesn't deal with the verbalization of these ideas well. |
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| Author: | garydi1 [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 1:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me out guys ASAP |
your putting to much thought into this you need to just go for it. this girl couldn't give you anymore hints unless she held up a sign. stop thinking about it just go ahead and ask her before she thinks your not interested |
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| Author: | nathanlol28 [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 11:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me out guys ASAP |
Thanks guys I'll try my best I'll let you know guys know what happens later on |
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| Author: | textytext [ Sun Jan 25, 2015 4:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me out guys ASAP |
what kind of college has lockers? |
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