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Author:  Giffnock [ Tue Jan 06, 2015 2:53 pm ]
Post subject:  What so say when a chick texts “ What you upto tonight?” ?
I noticed I get this a lot via text/online game and I always feel like I’m struggling to answer it effectively. The truth is usually I’m doing nothing that would be of any interest to her or DHV me in anyway. I work 9 to 5 as a computer programmer, I go to the gym and body build 3 times per week and I go out drinking and sarging at the weekends. The rest of the time my nights are usually free but obviously just texting back “nothing much what about you?“ hurts my game.

So does anybody have a list of possible answers to this question, they can be cocky funny, witty or they can be genuine answers that will sound cool to her and be generally plausible ?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Jan 06, 2015 3:10 pm ]
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"vigilante justice"
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Tue Jan 06, 2015 4:12 pm ]
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If shes asking you this she probably wants to hang out.

"Actually, not a whole lot tonight. Come have a drink with me."

Try that next time.
Author:  Giffnock [ Tue Jan 06, 2015 4:59 pm ]
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Assume shes defiantly not wanting to hang out.
Author:  Dragula [ Tue Jan 06, 2015 5:22 pm ]
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'i finish the gym at 7 pm, then I kinda have a free night, why?'
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Tue Jan 06, 2015 5:41 pm ]
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Assume shes defiantly not wanting to hang out.
Why do you assume that? But if she doesnt want to hang out then who cares what you say? Hell, dont even respond if you dont want. Dont make time for women who wont make time for you.
Author:  Giffnock [ Tue Jan 06, 2015 7:07 pm ]
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Its not like that, she lives kinda far away we have a date arranged for a few days time. But the point in this thread is I have noticed I get asked that a lot during chats on whats app etc with many women Iv chatted with from online etc. They ask because they are trying to determine if your a busy guy etc. You cant just say 'i finish the gym at 7 pm, then I kinda have a free night, why?' every single time they ask which is usually 2 or 3 times a week with me. I want to try and give the impression i am a busy man and you have important things to do in life. Which really I dont...
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Jan 06, 2015 7:14 pm ]
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Its not like that, she lives kinda far away we have a date arranged for a few days time. But the point in this thread is I have noticed I get asked that a lot during chats on whats app etc with many women Iv chatted with from online etc. They ask because they are trying to determine if your a busy guy etc. You cant just say 'i finish the gym at 7 pm, then I kinda have a free night, why?' every single time they ask which is usually 2 or 3 times a week with me. I want to try and give the impression i am a busy man and you have important things to do in life. Which really I dont...
This sounds like overthinking thinking to me. Sometimes questions are just to start a conversation.
Author:  breedlove465 [ Tue Jan 06, 2015 7:27 pm ]
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Its not like that, she lives kinda far away we have a date arranged for a few days time. But the point in this thread is I have noticed I get asked that a lot during chats on whats app etc with many women Iv chatted with from online etc. They ask because they are trying to determine if your a busy guy etc. You cant just say 'i finish the gym at 7 pm, then I kinda have a free night, why?' every single time they ask which is usually 2 or 3 times a week with me. I want to try and give the impression i am a busy man and you have important things to do in life. Which really I dont...
This sounds like overthinking thinking to me. Sometimes questions are just to start a conversation.
Exactly. You're trying to make this a test when it probably isn't one.

Either respond with something funny like what Charles posted, or respond with

"I'm actually taking it easy tonight, saving myself for the weekend, what about you?"

This shows that you are free right now, but a social guy on the weekends. If you think that she's sitting at her phone thinking "hmm, this guy isn't partying on a Tuesday night? What a loser!" then you are crazy.

When I get a "what you up to tonight" text, I either respond with what I will actually be busy with, or a line like "I'm taking it easy tonight, partied pretty hard over the weekend, wanna come keep my company?".

I assume she is asking if you are free and I take the lead.
Author:  PatrickAnanda [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 8:50 pm ]
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I noticed I get this a lot via text/online game and I always feel like I’m struggling to answer it effectively. The truth is usually I’m doing nothing that would be of any interest to her or DHV me in anyway. I work 9 to 5 as a computer programmer, I go to the gym and body build 3 times per week and I go out drinking and sarging at the weekends. The rest of the time my nights are usually free but obviously just texting back “nothing much what about you?“ hurts my game.

So does anybody have a list of possible answers to this question, they can be cocky funny, witty or they can be genuine answers that will sound cool to her and be generally plausible ?
There are two parts to your question here.

The first part is your own lifestyle, which you're clearly unhappy with (this wouldn't exist as a topic if you were, nor would you feel that it hurts your game). So change it... Go out on adventures, go learn new things, develop your passions and for the love of God STOP FUCKING SARGING.

The second part and immediate answer to your question is: why do you care so much? Stop trying to DHV, stop worrying about "your game", stop trying to seem more interesting, basically stop trying.
The naturals and cool guys you idolize, do you think they try? Do you think they overthink this stuff?

Man up, do something wild and interesting and invite her to become a part of it.

Good luck!
With love and respect
Mack
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 9:39 pm ]
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If you really want to seem busy just ignore her text.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 9:45 pm ]
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"Your sister"
Author:  textytext [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 11:46 pm ]
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don't get caught up in "text game". if you have to think about it too much then you are already using it wrong. texting should be nothing more than a way to hook get logistics out of the way for the hookup. person to person should always be the goal so keep texts short and simple. if it starts to turn into a conversation then put an end to it until you see her again. women look at texting and long phone conversations as a date in itself sometimes. it can mess up your chances for personal contact.
Author:  deactivatedaccount [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 11:57 pm ]
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"vigilante justice"
haha this is great! will defo use this one, thanks :mrgreen:
Author:  Jalen [ Fri Jan 30, 2015 8:09 pm ]
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Tell her

First you'll have to tell me a joke... and it better be funny.

don't just answer straight away, even if it is interesting, create some energy with banter. is my approach.

CIA training. ssshhhhh don't tell anyone! You?
Currently filling up my hot air balloon, kinda dizzy right now, chat later? ;-)
- other silly stuff like that


and also turn it into a game...

Ill give you three choices 1 is true and 2 are lies. correct answer is worth 1 point.
1. ????
2. ????
3. ????

then if she gets it right say you only need 3 more points to have me meet you for coffee ;-)


if I ever ask her what she's doing its not usually a question its something like -


tonight I am gloriously going to ______________________________________
(im listening)

or whatever.. some silly adjective but in the form of a fill in the blanks, so now its a game and not just another dude trying to stalk her

or farm your answer like that...

Tonight I am gloriously starting chapter 2 on rosetta stone spanish for my summer trip (blah blah blah

then sen her the one with the fill in the blanks
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