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| Author: | AlphaClass [ Sun Sep 28, 2014 2:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What To Do If You're Asked "Are You Gay?" |
So this is a quick throwdown question for the boys willing to bounce it back. The story follows: >Be 20, 6 Foot 5 inches. >Friday night. >At a university gathering which is basically dead as fuck for a party. >Be quite wasted on cheap wine but feeling energetic and collected as all hell. >I already have a girlfriend (not with me at the time) so I'm just there with my mate to enjoy myself. In front of me and my mate there is a blonde (A 9, who later told me she was Chloe) a redhead guy around 20, looked like Conan O'brian who was short shaven and seemed like a friendly sort of guy. While I was sitting with my friend talking I seen a brunette (a 9 as well) who was obviously attracted to the pre-selection quality this guy possessed and on short notice invited herself into the conversation between these two. It only took 30 seconds before the brunette was stealing all of Chloe's attention that she was garnering for a good 20 minutes. Chloe looked very friendly and I almost felt bad for her, so this is where I took drastic action to change the conversation completely. I immediately burst into the trio mid conversation and directly address the guy asking if his "Krew" cap he had on was genuine. He said it was a gift from Sweden so he couldn't tell otherwise. I told him to look for the "lipping on the brim" and "canvas on the forehead". All the while I'm wasted so I didn't know what the fuck I was talking about, but it sounded good at the time. As soon as I start talking to the guy, the brunette immediately gets put off her game and leaves the conversation while Chloe is drawn back in to the fact she now has no competition. After the hat convo, Conan goes off to the toilet while I'm left with Chloe who right now is interested in who I am. She's asking my name (which I made her guess) and what I do (said a dolphin trainer). I told her I came over because I could see the brunette was stealing the attention away from her and she thanked me so much for that but also asked if I was Gay. I said no, definitely not, but I wanted to get an opinion on what other guys would do in this situation?? I know to use a disqualifier like saying you are gay to build initial attraction with a woman. But this was different because Chloe was touching me and asking what my name was straight away so I knew the IOI's were there. When confronted with this question I was immediately at crossroads, do you say you are gay if the attraction is slightly there, or use a disqualifier for her to become comfortable around you. In the end, Conan came back from a toilet break and the two kicked off conversation from where they left off, I realised I would be intruding if I stayed so I politely ejected convo with friendly sendoffs by both Chloe and Redhead alike. Mind you this is basically the first approach I've ever made in a social setting, so all went quite well. |
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| Author: | Tony M [ Thu Oct 02, 2014 3:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What To Do If You're Asked "Are You Gay?" |
I would say gay.And with that affirmation you can make a lot of push&pull.Like:"Yes,sorry I am gay so don't try to hit on me"/"Or try,maybe I will change my orientations tonight".After you escalate you can isolate her and tell shit like"quick,quick my boyfriend is coming after me and I really want to see how is a girl kiss".Just make it very funny like you don't take yourself too srsly.Of course she will not believe you are gay(make her believe that:)))but girls like that roleplaying scenarios.Peace |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Oct 02, 2014 3:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What To Do If You're Asked "Are You Gay?" |
In your deepest, most manly voice possible, you say: "I love cock. It's my favorite thing in the world!" and smile so she knows you're joking. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Thu Oct 02, 2014 10:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What To Do If You're Asked "Are You Gay?" |
A girl calling you gay is a great opportunity to banter and have fun. I get this occasionally in set. You never want to run away from such shit tests. Embrace them like a man and have fun with them instead of appearing all butt-hurt. |
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| Author: | Herkules181 [ Sun Oct 05, 2014 10:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What To Do If You're Asked "Are You Gay?" |
great shittest to pass. stay centered, unreactive, icy, whatever you want to call it, hit her back with something witty, be unapolegatic. you can also mock her for asking it. Its a great thing to get from a girl, when you know how to handle it. It sparks man to woman type of interaction |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Thu Oct 09, 2014 5:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What To Do If You're Asked "Are You Gay?" |
I've only been called gay once by a creepy stalker girl when I kept ignoring her, so I can't speak from personal experience, but I have a friend who gets called gay a decent amount and I think he agrees and amplifies which works well for him. |
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