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| Author: | chicocat21 [ Sun Aug 17, 2014 6:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | HB 8.5 playing hard to get |
I've been seeing this girl from work who is moving away in a few weeks (that's the reason I broke my no dating from work rule). We've mainly been hanging out, although I've been making various moves (kissing, cuddling, caressing ass, etc...), some of which have been accepted, others which have been rejected. Last night did it for me though. After going out to an observatory and dinner, I tried to kiss her twice, she said no and moved her head away. I uttered "i'm done trying" and walked her out. Right before getting in her car, she said "if I lived alone, I would stay over" (she recently moved back in with family temporarily). She also said my approach was not too smooth and asked me to kiss her after telling me to "do an expression between a smile and an angry face"...WTF??? I was out of the game for almost 4 years, since I was in a LTR. I know I've been doing a lot of AFCish things, but I'm sure she's interested. I'm in my early 30s, she's in her mid 20s. We've discussed not wanting to be in relationships, but still wanting to date around. I'm sure she's seeing other guys, just like I'm seeing other girls. If anybody thinks this can be easily saved, let me know how. If not, I'm ready to move on anyway and would like to know the best PUA move to make at this point. Thanks. Few things to note: - she's an 8.5 who sometimes thinks she's a 9.5 because of the crapy guy to girl ratio in SF - she's admitted she's gullible when it comes to reverse psych - we live about 45 minutes away from each other, so she's hesitant to coming over to my place - I decided I'm done with her, but am willing to try new things if there's still a chance to succeed |
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| Author: | LifeChanger90 [ Sun Aug 17, 2014 7:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HB 8.5 playing hard to get |
Quote: She also said my approach was not too smooth and asked me to kiss her after telling me to "do an expression between a smile and an angry face"...WTF???
This girl is definitely playing with you. She likes you, that's for sure, but she knows that you're more into here than she is with you (or thinks she is, since she suffers from the princess syndrome).I would walk away. Just freeze her out and if she contacts you to hang out just say 'sure, come on over' and escalate again, but don't invest any other time or energy into her. That way you keep your self-respect. Remember: She should be chasing you, the more you chase her the less she'll be DTF. |
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| Author: | Playboi_ [ Sun Aug 17, 2014 11:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HB 8.5 playing hard to get |
Your bullet points are irrelevant. Her attitude says it all. She just thinks she is the end all be all. You have z good attitude about it. You should be moving on. If she makes herself available and starts warming up to come to see you, take advantage of it. |
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| Author: | chicocat21 [ Mon Aug 18, 2014 3:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HB 8.5 playing hard to get |
Yeah, both of the above comments are the sentiments I had. I wont contact her or ask her out. If she wants anything, it's up to her to convince me now. |
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