Hey, So I just came back from a two month long trip in Europe. It was a graduation trip with a good friend and my first time in Europe so gaming wasn't a priority. That being said, we still went out basically every night and opened 5 or 6 sets during the day... but no actual pulls. In two month of travel, with lots of very open sets, no closes...
Here are what I think the problems are and I would appreciate any feedback you guys can give me.
Basically I open with something pretty straight forward such as hmmm, you are pretty cute whats your name. Sometimes when the situation works I would do an indirect approach like are you guys cannadians, germans, etc.
The set will ususally ask where I'm from what do I do etc, and I will usually ask her to guess, joke about her usually asian answer (i look like a stereotypical nice asian guy) etc. I ususally do some Kino at this point, gentle tap on the shoulder etc. one line i use a lot is how my heart beats really fast for her, she feels my chest, I do the same to her, etc.
But here is the problem, I don't run out of things to say, the girls are laughing and joking around, but I don't have attraction. According to Mystery, i have the open and the stimulus but I don't have the attraction. I didn't tie the fun to me, but how the hell do I do that?
I'm a pretty logical guy so I have expereimented with different models, routines, etc. but to no success. It all just get to the point where I can tell they are having fun but there is no attraction. Its a wall that seems to have a tangible presence for me that I can't get across.
As a newbie I think I'm playing too much into the Asian stereotype? As a side note this only happens with white girls as I don't have any problem with Asian girls. (funny thing is if she is really white washed same problem)
Any help or suggestion will be greatly appreciated thanks.
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