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| Author: | sbsparts [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 12:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help with attraction and escalating |
Hey guys, I have kind of an unusual circumstance in that I am traveling for about a year and a half internationally. This is not a problem in terms of communication because most of the women are Australian or European and speak English. The problem that I'm having is I don't seem to get any reciprocation when I try to escalate. A quick example: I met a girl where I was staying and she spent about two hours talking with me (even through there were plenty of other people around.) Her friend showed up and they were both tired and unfortunately leaving the next day so there wasn't an easy way for me to escalate that night. Still I had her and her friend laughing seemingly enjoying my company. I end up meeting up with them in the next town we are both visiting a couple days later. She invites me to her hostel with her friend for a few drinks. I get there all is well, but my attempts at physical escalation meet with indifference from her. I even catch her friend shooting her a look that she knows what's going on. Oddly, they keep insisting that i meet them at the next city their headed to, which makes me wonder if they just find me entertaining without being attracted. I realize that something isn't right but I can't figure out where I'm failing here. This has happened a bunch of times with other women so I guess my question is how do I get my Kino to have a better effect? I'm pretty good at reading people ( I sense when something is off), but I have trouble figuring out why I get the responses I do most of the time. Thanks for your help. |
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| Author: | NaughtyNapoleon [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 11:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with attraction and escalating |
Well ~ sbsparts This situation mostly happen because that girl want you as a bf and she's slow-gaming you. SHe want you to invest more on her before you can go to bed with her so you will value her more. I can't specifically say it's not your escalation problem... But I can say this happen largely due to you are come off as a bf material (good or bad; it depends on what you want to do with that girl). But for me, come off as a hookup material is always the best as a girl will hardly refuse my escalation when they see me as a guy to hookup with. So work on yourself to become a hookup material. P.S. Yes, I have write a post about this in my blog. Hope this help Naughty Napoleon |
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| Author: | sbsparts [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 6:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with attraction and escalating |
Thanks man, Can you post the direct link to your blog, I couldn't find any article on the home page |
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