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Author:  hinacay [ Wed Jun 04, 2014 7:40 pm ]
Post subject:  RECOVERY HELP PLEASE!

I was talking to this HB8.5 whom i am really interested with. However i think i might have moved to quickly and put her off..... any advice on how to recover or should i just let it go???

me: Hey. Id get rid of that picture on your profile (compliments of DV)
her: Which one? And why do you say that?
me: Haha I'm just messin with ya. Hope you can take a joke. I came across your profile and thought you were cute and interesting. My names NAME. What are you up to on this beautiful day.

her: Oh no, I am so offended ;p Well why thank you, I'm glad some found my unfiltered stream of consciousness somewhat entertaining. It's nice to meet you NAME, I'm HERNAME. I'm actually off of work today so I'm in all of my glory sitting on my deck enjoying a coffee, as for the rest of the day "relaxation" is the key word. What about yourself?

me: It's nice when a woman just speaks her mind and doesn't hide behind all the bull shit.
Oh that sounds really nice actually.. I'd give anything for a cup of coffee right now. what do you do? Today's my day off but I'm keeping busy as I have a performance later today. (i play the saxophone/its my profilepic)

her: I've never understood that, although I am unapologetically me too a fault at times haha.
I don't mean to boast but I sure make a mean cup of coffee! I'm actually a waitress, nothing too exciting but I'm not going to complain, my regulars are awesome. What do you do for work? I love that you play the sax, it's hands down one of my favourite instruments. I'm a sucker for jazz and blues though so what do you expect

me: Oh really? hmm I'm skeptical as to your coffee making skills. I don't enjoy just any cup of coffee you know. Only the finest beans will do oh and french press is definitely a prerequisite.
I'm actually a line cook. My jobs pretty slack especially since management doesn't hassle us about eating so I literally get paid to eat all the time. All of our waitresses get super jealous of us.
Oh really? Not a lot of people these days like jazz so that's pretty refreshing to hear you appreciate the finer things in life. Nothing beats heading down to Wine-Os or Cafe Koi and listening to some people perform jazz while drinking a glass of wine or scotch.

after this she hadn't responded so the next evening i decided to shoot a reopener

me: What upp.. so quick question, strawberries, skittles, or M'Ms
her: Sorry about the whole no reply thing, I think it was definitely the coffee thing lol, I felt intimidated :p
her: Strawberries and chocolate sounds like brilliance, might that be an option?
me: Haha no worries. It takes a special kind of someone to handle my tastes ;P
strawberries and chocolate?? those are so last week. Don't you know that skittles are where its at these days.

her: You mentioned wine and scotch, I'll take that, and strawberries haha
her: But I would totally choose m&m's, hands down
me: alright then now we're talking. What's your poison? and I swear if you say jack daniels I might be forced to end contact with you haha
her: Well if we're talking me treating myself, then I'll take a nice glass of auchentoshan three wood.. Otherwise, a good ol' johnnie walker black will be good enough for me

me: whew big spender haha. I will admit though I've never had johnnie walker before. Do you recommend it?
her: I can appreciate the finer things in life at times, a nice scotch being one of them haha. I do recommend it actually, it never disappoints
me: looks like i'm going to have to buy some Johnnie Walker then and enjoy a nice glass. Maybe we can even share one depending on if i'm not feeling too stingy that evening. A classic BB King or Ella Fitzgerald record would be playing of course

and thats it.. any tips guys on getting back ontrack?

Author:  hinacay [ Thu Jun 05, 2014 5:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: RECOVERY HELP PLEASE!

come on surely some one must have some sort of advice to give me

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Jun 05, 2014 12:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: RECOVERY HELP PLEASE!

Where did it go off-track? She stopped replying, is that it?

Your conversation was fine (a little dull, but she was playing along) - I don't really see how your conversation shit the bed and why you're so concerned about it?

Just re-open her today.

Author:  hinacay [ Thu Jun 05, 2014 3:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: RECOVERY HELP PLEASE!

Would you happen to have any good reopener tips?

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Jun 05, 2014 6:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: RECOVERY HELP PLEASE!

Sure...

"Hey you!"

Then tell her you've been giving it some serious thought and you'd really like your first experience with fine scotch to be with her... what does she think?

Banter a bit but don't let things get old or stale. Get that number.

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