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Author:  musolini [ Sun May 11, 2014 6:16 pm ]
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So i've been seeing this girl who broke up with her boyfriend 2 months ago. I've known her for over a month and it was straight sex from day one. We get along fine and have had good times together but when it comes down to connecting on a deeper level she totally shuts down. She opens up real slowly, doesnt like personal questions, now and then she talks about her ex, saying how she loved him so much and cant believe she got cheated on by him and bla bla bla. I'm getting the feeling she still wants him now and this affects me alot since I'm starting to have feelings for her. What should I do next? Act cool like nothing's going on or tell her to leave before things get worse? Thanks in advance

Author:  Zirk13 [ Sun May 11, 2014 6:51 pm ]
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right now you are the rebound, the only thing I would advise is push meaning distance yourself have her start to feel like shes chasing you

Author:  musolini [ Mon May 12, 2014 11:06 am ]
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I also thought about letting her chase me but now i'm really confused. We live in the same building and see each other daily (also fuck daily) and today i see she bought a cream for pregnancy strech marks and baby clothes!! We never use a condom so of course i'm stressed the fuck out. I confronted her and she says its not for her and she just thought the baby clothes looked cute. She refuses to take a pregnancy test (maybe already did without my knowing). Wtf should I do?

Author:  In$tinct [ Mon May 12, 2014 11:20 am ]
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Wtf should I do?
Hope and pray to your god she's not pregnant, and use condoms...

Author:  musolini [ Mon Jun 16, 2014 5:05 pm ]
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Update: thank god she's not pregnant. Still need advice though on a different issue.
today her ex called while i was with her she leaves the room to talk to him. I suspected it was her ex calling since i havent seen this kind of behavior from her and afterwards she told me it was him. Obviously i was upset and she could see this but she says she's happy to know he's chasing her after what he did and she enjoys the torture he's going through. She broke off every contact before and now says she doesnt mind to stay in touch.
I know from my own experience that if u still have contact it aint over. She noticed my bad mood and eventually started crying saying how much she loves me how she wants to be with me but I think this was just a moment of weakness. Honestly I have no idea where to go from here and can only think about leaving her cause this doesnt seem like its going to work out.
Any advice will be appreciated.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Jun 16, 2014 6:07 pm ]
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Obviously i was upset and she could see this but she says she's happy to know he's chasing her after what he did and she enjoys the torture he's going through. She broke off every contact before and now says she doesnt mind to stay in touch.
Only a matter of time before he's plowing her.

Author:  musolini [ Mon Jun 16, 2014 6:18 pm ]
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Obviously i was upset and she could see this but she says she's happy to know he's chasing her after what he did and she enjoys the torture he's going through. She broke off every contact before and now says she doesnt mind to stay in touch.
Only a matter of time before he's plowing her.
yea thats what i also figured. thanks

Author:  musolini [ Tue Jun 17, 2014 9:24 am ]
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Anyone else some advice? I think I played my cards right but just cant win this girl over..

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