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Author:  Jell-O123 [ Tue Apr 08, 2014 10:41 pm ]
Post subject:  How do I build attraction at a movie date?!
I got a date with this pretty girl I like and we decided to go see a movie at the theater. But the fact that she said yes shows that she does have some intrest in me, right? So if anything, I wanted to know what would be some good way(s) to build attraction at a movie so I won't stay in the friend zone. Thanks in advance!
Author:  Donston [ Wed Apr 09, 2014 12:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I build attraction at a movie date?!
I normally would never bring a girl on a date unless I've been seeing her for a while ...

But, the only tactics I can think of is whisper to her during the movie about sexual shit ... First I would whisper funny shit ... saying things like, "This movie is loosely base on my life ... " or mis interpret things ...

- Then amp it up to sexual shit ... like, "If it wasn't for all this people here ... I would totally take care of business right here and now."

Other tactics that could work is set the frame of the movie as what you see in movies with guy and girl dating n' putting arms around her by yawning ... or teens making out hardcore at the movies totally disrupting everyone ... By saying, "I've decided that we are two young teens going on a date at the movies starting right now ..." Can set this role play.
- Say things like ... "Making out in here like teens would be inappropriate ..."
- Make sure to sit at a place where it's kinda hidden from others ... so you can make the excuse, "No one can see us ... just one real quick kiss" ... when you go for the kiss.

But, if I encapsulate this with my dates ... I would tell the girl to meet me at my place first ... tell her to leave something there ... maybe her car or something ... or jacket ... or wallet ... so she has to come back after the date.
- Sometimes we don't end up going to the date and just get jiggy with it there ...

I guess most of your action and escalation can be done before the movie starts ... So I would try to set the frame then.

Or you can totally reframe the movie date to do another date where you can actually do some game. Movie dates are difficult to run game ... but, it I don't think it is possible ^_^. Say, "I change my mind about the movie date ... we are going to XYZ bar instead or XYZ coffee place ..." Just dominate and lead with out asking for permission ...

Tahahaha, excuse how jumbled my ideas are ... I'am not to experience in movie dates ... I'm just using what I would do for my dates and with new girls I'm gaming and incorporating it into a movie date.

Sincerely,

Donston
Author:  Mattr1984 [ Sat Apr 12, 2014 9:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I build attraction at a movie date?!
Feel her up during the movie.

Also, you don't "build attraction" you are either attractive or you aren't. If you are attractive all you need to do is escalate and let the girl feel comfortable/horny enough to want to have sex with you.
Author:  Nero Black [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 7:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I build attraction at a movie date?!
I have an upcoming movie date as well, and I like the idea of bringing her back to your crib first so she can leave something really cool. How do you normally take them to your place first before the movies?

I would also think that the movies is a relatively easy place provided that the attraction/horny is already there and as long as your detached and away from everyone else. Its dark, the thrill of getting caught and a chance as one poster said to act like kids.

Any particular movie or genre you guys thinks work best?
Author:  Xian3Blue [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 9:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I build attraction at a movie date?!
watch a horror movie
Author:  hugge [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I build attraction at a movie date?!
"Creating attraction" requires her attention on you. With other words, you need to have a conversation with her. Conclusion? Watching a movie is not a good date. There is nothing wrong with it, but while you watch the movie it is as if your date is "on pause" and won't take you anywhere. Make sure you do something together either before of after the movie.
Author:  Donston [ Mon Apr 14, 2014 9:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I build attraction at a movie date?!
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I have an upcoming movie date as well, and I like the idea of bringing her back to your crib first so she can leave something really cool. How do you normally take them to your place first before the movies?
It all depends on how she is going to get there and how you guys are going to get there.
Either:
1) If you guys are driving. Tell her to drive/meet up at your place and explain that you don't want neither of you guys to wait just incase one of you guys are late. Then take one car to your date.
2) Tell her to meet you at the corner near your house and to text you when she arrives. When she is at the corner ... go meet up with her and tell her that you forgot your wallet and to quickly go to your place to get it.

Once she is at your place ... tell her to go turn off some lights (that you obviously left on). The point is for her to get comfortable with your place so you can easily invite her back after the date.
- You can offer a drink and possibly avoid the date and just get jiggy with it there.
- You can offer to pay for the date and tell her to leave her wallet there or something.
say: "Where I'm from we pay for the date." (I do this if the date will be cheap :p.)
- You can tell her to leave her jacket if it's to hot or to avoid coat check ... etc etc.

Sincerely,

Donston
Author:  Digital_Spy [ Fri Apr 18, 2014 11:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I build attraction at a movie date?!
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Feel her up during the movie.

Also, you don't "build attraction" you are either attractive or you aren't. If you are attractive all you need to do is escalate and let the girl feel comfortable/horny enough to want to have sex with you.

Dude. DO NOT feel her up during the movie. Jesus Christ she's not some piece of meat you can just paw away at. What the FUCK is wrong with you guys? Your dicks have taken over your stupid, empty brains. If you come on too strong and start touching her up don't be surprised if she slaps your face and you never hear from her again. She is virtually a complete stranger to you. You barely KNOW her so why the fuck would you do that? She'll just see you as another horny fuckwit loser who is only after one thing and trust me, THAT will turn girls off in their droves. They want to feel respected, not like some cheap piece of shit that you work on during a movie in the vain hope that she'll fuck you after it. Christ get a clue you saddos. Why behave like every single fucking jerk in town? Yeh that'll turn her on. Use your fucking brains.
Author:  Suit & Tie [ Sat Apr 19, 2014 8:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I build attraction at a movie date?!
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Feel her up during the movie.

Also, you don't "build attraction" you are either attractive or you aren't. If you are attractive all you need to do is escalate and let the girl feel comfortable/horny enough to want to have sex with you.

Dude. DO NOT feel her up during the movie. Jesus Christ she's not some piece of meat you can just paw away at. What the FUCK is wrong with you guys? Your dicks have taken over your stupid, empty brains. If you come on too strong and start touching her up don't be surprised if she slaps your face and you never hear from her again. She is virtually a complete stranger to you. You barely KNOW her so why the fuck would you do that? She'll just see you as another horny fuckwit loser who is only after one thing and trust me, THAT will turn girls off in their droves. They want to feel respected, not like some cheap piece of shit that you work on during a movie in the vain hope that she'll fuck you after it. Christ get a clue you saddos. Why behave like every single fucking jerk in town? Yeh that'll turn her on. Use your fucking brains.
Well at least you were right about one thing for once, but you can't seem to offer any positive advice at what he should do. Don't feel her up during the movie. If at all possible try to change the venue. Instead of going to a movie theater try to make the movie at your place if you can, because you can make it a lot more romantic. You can put a blanket on the floor and get close to her, have some wine, dim the lights, and escalate easier while under the blanket.
Author:  In$tinct [ Sat Apr 19, 2014 1:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I build attraction at a movie date?!
I have no fucking clue why everyone keeps going on movie dates. It is so limiting, and very passive. Active dates are best. Some sports, or some fun activities that require interactions and participation. Not just sitting in front of a screen. A movie date would only work if you watched the movie at your place or hers because "watching a movie at my place" is pretty much a universal code for fucking, so if she agrees to that then you know you have green light.

Anyway. Keeping your body language relaxed, not putting pressure on this entire movie date thing, and suggesting something else after the movie is over are your best shots I guess.
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