Hey, hope you guys are having fun and chilling.
Alright, here's whatsup. So, I have a social circle with about 5-6 people and out of that there's one girl who I would want to date. I know her for about 7 months since I moved to Dubai. Now, I don't know if this is oneitis or not but I don't really try sarging and talking to random women here coz I am a little scared of this place.
Anyway, I would get in the detail of my steps on what I did to build attraction which could not be achieved.
1. I come out as a confident guy, I'm fairly social and we have been in good terms too.
2. I DHV'd quite a bit, by telling her about my social life and the women I met before I moved in here.
3. I was never able to get an individual connection coz she gets A LOT of attention, even from guys in my own circle. Now here's where it gets fucked up, she gives them attention to and I'm unsure if those are IOIs or not. She pulls their cheeks or punches them on the arm, smiles sometimes as well.
4. Now, I thought this is a good time to neg coz she was getting a lot of attention and so I did that, but that created a fight! And she tells me that there is an 'ego clash' between us. I personally value my relationship with her more than my ego and I apologized after a week.
5. I am never able to isolate her from the group coz the group is always glued. I am not able to make a connection and build rapport. I tried some of Mystery's routines such as 'the luggage routine' and 'the corona beer' routine from Style's Annihilation Method to trigger that she has 'hijacked' my brain. I also did 'The Cube.'
Situation after these steps:-
1.Not getting IOIs, or a genuine conversation interest.
2. She was very happy after I did a few routines but I haven't been getting any attraction.
3. NEVER ABLE TO ISOLATE.
4. She hasn't dated any of the guys who have constantly been giving her attention and I think she's just using them to get her self esteem boosted.
5. I am still gonna stay firm that I am the fucking prize in this situation but I don't know how I can escalate and get her to get interested in me.
6. I tend to ignore her and not give her attention, coz she gets a lot anyway. And we're getting distant. It's her loss anyway.
Reason I don't give her attention:- It's straight DLV for me. I don't wanna keep her on a pedestal, at all.
How can you guys help me?
I want attraction, sexual tension and for her to qualify herself to me. It's not just her looks that I am after. She is one challenging girl and that's what has kept me going for so long!
Keep Partying and banging
Love,
Sonic