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| Author: | Porche [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 11:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Emergency Advice, Please help me |
I am Porche, and in the last time i find that i have a problem in the mid game with girls. So things look something like this: 1. I open 2. I convey some personality by cold reading and small magic tricks 3. Building Attraction 4. Normal conversation Most of my game is online. When it comes to step 3 (building attraction) i have big problems. I already know the main attraction switches, but if i start speaking about me is something like: i am the seller and she is the buyer, and if i start asking her questions i will be the buyer and she the seller and the idee is that she does not ask questions after i play the buyer role. I need desperate help with the building attraction step. I can't be natural in a conversation on step 3, i always have to think based on a structure. Please explain me how things have to be right. The main attraction switches are: # 1: You must show her that your're safe. You need SAFETY and TRUST. # 2: You must show her that you have either ambition, motivation, or job/financial security. You must have a life and goals. # 3: You must show her that you are differnt from all the other guys. Show her that she can learn something from you or she can grow with you. Show her that she can learn something from you. Use DHVs to do this. # 4: You must be a prize of the room.She wants a guy others will envy her for, she can brag about to her friends. It's about social proof, story-telling, alpha qualities, cocky/funny and not supplicating. So switch #4 is demonstrating all of the many qualities of CONFIDENCE, LEADERSHIP, AUTHORITY, and POPULARITY # 5: It's a big world and we all feel alone in it, so if you can demonstrate that you understand her and where she comes from, she will fell chemistry. The more obscure and rare a trait that you connect on, the more chemistry you create. So Switch #5 is demonstrating COMMONALITIES in order to trigger CHEMISTRY # 6: You need an auro of depth and mystery. You must maybe show a vulnerable or wounded side of yourself, you must not give away everything for free, you must be a puzzle she wants to figure out and maybe even have a wound she can heal # 7: You must show her that you are NOT horny, but sexual. This is where social proof comes in too, also demonstrating an understanding of her world (liking her for who SHE is). So switch #7 is demonstrating your own LACK OF DESPERATION while showing her that you RECOGNIZE SOMETHING SPECIAL IN HER THAT ATTRACTS YOU TO HER. |
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| Author: | partyup [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 5:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Emergency Advice, Please help me |
I am new and this is my first post  well i think some of the things you miss is that you will have to touch her deep inside for example with at cold reading or make her tell something secret/special about her self and like you self said: It's a big world and we all feel alone in it, so if you can demonstratethat you understand her and where she comes from, she will fell chemistry. The more obscure and rare a trait that you connect on  tell me if i am totally wrong :p
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| Author: | anthonypham [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 7:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Emergency Advice, Please help me |
Quote: I am Porche, and in the last time i find that i have a problem in the mid game with girls. So things look something like this:
Porsche mate! You read the material too well. The material is not an exact stepplan in every situations, but are concepts/guidelines. For reallife game, not for on-line.
Most of my game is online. |
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