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Author:  No_Name [ Wed Jan 29, 2014 11:49 pm ]
Post subject:  After the Opener

To my understanding, after the opener you should start displaying higher value. What are some tricks, or things you do to just change topic? Thank you for answering!

Eager,

AFC

Author:  Jason. [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 2:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: After the Opener

the follow up depends on the opener, but thinking of it as "openers" and "DHVS" can be counterproductive. i know from experience that kind of thinking fucked me up, and i lost confidence in my "game".

the truth is if you think of it like a game, you need to remember that the girl is also playing the game, and she wants to win too.
if what you want is to win her affection, make her like you, remember always that she is also playing, and wants to feel like she's with a guy she has won over, she has conquered with her skills, so i don't play to get the girl, i play to make her want to play, and thats how i define attraction: making her want to play with you.

Author:  anthonypham [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: After the Opener

Quote:
To my understanding, after the opener you should start displaying higher value. What are some tricks, or things you do to just change topic? Thank you for answering!

Eager,

AFC
After the opener, you are still nowhere. YOu just opened. Between Opener and Displayhing DHV, there is getting her on the hook. This means, the girl should think you are funny to talk to :) And you should feel whether or not the girl is on the hook, before you display DHV. Otherwise your DHV will not work.

Author:  bamthebomb [ Sat Feb 01, 2014 10:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: After the Opener

opener means to open a conversation and also means to open o way of communication. Communication means verbal and non-verbal, body language. you can open a girl and look away while you are talking to her, that means you will crush and burn.

Open with a line that you can pull it off and can lead to a conversation, a real one not just a conversation.

Example not to do :

Hey, can you help me with a opinion? Who lies more, men or women? and after ask her from where are you? Find a way to maintain a conversation and DHV will appear.

Here is an example how should be done:

me:hey, me and my friends are going to rob a bank and we need a driver, can you help us?
her: yes/no bla bla bla bla
me: come on it will be fun haha. You look like a friendly person who likes to have fun.
me: you should trust me, everybody says i am an honest person(a small DVH spike)

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