Test Her Intent !!
Testing intent is a vital procedure to ensure that you've built enough attraction with your target. If you make a move for a kiss, but haven't yet built enough attraction, you could lose her for good. But if you have followed all the steps laid out, and are still portraying your "New Player Ego" with consistency, you should be ready to get closer with your target. The best way to make sure you are at that point in the pickup is to use one of the following tests of intent. These "tests" are fun games which will further the comfort building process as well.
Testing Your Target's Intent
One of the best ways to test your target to see if she's ready to kiss is to build off of the touching rapport you built in the previous section. If she is at the appropriate level of attraction, she will respond to your touches with more touches. Every touch you give her, will be responded to with an equally flirty touch. The following tests of intent capitalize on this idea.
The Thumb War Test
The thumb war test is a fun way to test your target's intent. Here's how to do it. Challenge her to a thumb war, but instead of just grabbing one hand, grab both hands. Say that you "want to make sure she doesn't cheat.", and hold the other hand underneath the two hands which you are using for the thumb war. Just before you start the war, playfully squeeze the hand you are holding underneath the "war". If she is attracted to you, she will reciprocate and squeeze back. If she doesn't squeeze back, you need to focus on building more attraction by demonstrating the "pillars" in conversation once again.
A second good way to test your target's intent is The Lie Detector Test.
The Lie Detector Test
This test is based around another game you can play with your target. Here's how to do it...
Say this:
You: "I heard the other day that you can tell if someone is lying based on if their pupils dilate or not. Here, let me try it on you."
After saying this, take her hands and look into her eyes. Then tell her to "say two truths and a lie". Do your best to pick which is the lie. The theory is, that when someone lies, their pupils will dilate. You of course aren't too worried whether you get this right or not, because you are secretly just testing her intent. Squeeze her hands at some point during the game, and see if she squeezes back. Hopefully she will, meaning you have the green light to go for the kiss..
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