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Author:  ben dover [ Sun Jan 26, 2014 12:32 am ]
Post subject:  I followed my game, I screwed at the end, now what?
So guys, I am new on this forum and I have a sort of a problem. Generally, I like challenges, and there was this girl, I would say a strong 8, but a hard-one, she rejected all of them.

So I did my opener, I did follow the 10 minute rule, and then I excused myself. Afterwards she did gave me her phone number (IOI) although she said she never gave it to a guy before. We went out, there were several IOI's she was clearly interested in me. The first question she asked me was whether I had a gf, which I found it very awkward.

A second date of walking with a bunch of friends, then isolating her I hold her hand tight, she squeezed even tighter, everything was great. Than all of a sudden, she somehow lost interest, she made lousy excuses for not going etc, so I started did confront her, and it all went too far (I believe I lost my cool for a second).

Is it worthwile to proceed this, since it will such a great conquer, or should I just let it go and learn from it? If I should proceed, than how, without making me a loser who is desperate to have her back?

Thank to all...
Author:  Redlight [ Sat Feb 01, 2014 5:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I followed my game, I screwed at the end, now what?
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So guys, I am new on this forum and I have a sort of a problem. Generally, I like challenges, and there was this girl, I would say a strong 8, but a hard-one, she rejected all of them.

So I did my opener, I did follow the 10 minute rule, and then I excused myself. Afterwards she did gave me her phone number (IOI) although she said she never gave it to a guy before. We went out, there were several IOI's she was clearly interested in me. The first question she asked me was whether I had a gf, which I found it very awkward.
Her asking if you have a gf is a major IOI. My response of choice is "I have many friends, some of them are girls... But if you're asking if I am seeing someone, I am not". This kind of humorous response takes the edge off the awkward moment.
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A second date of walking with a bunch of friends, then isolating her I hold her hand tight, she squeezed even tighter, everything was great. Than all of a sudden, she somehow lost interest, she made lousy excuses for not going etc, so I started did confront her, and it all went too far (I believe I lost my cool for a second).
Never confront a girl about losing interest. Act like "it's no big deal" and game on. I've recently had a girl I went out with, had a good time and made out, then didn't make time the next three times I called her to meet. Dropped the whole thing and one week later she called. We picked it up from where we left off, with no weird discussions about why she didn't want to meet. That's how some women are...
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Is it worthwile to proceed this, since it will such a great conquer, or should I just let it go and learn from it? If I should proceed, than how, without making me a loser who is desperate to have her back?

Thank to all...
You have nothing to lose by calling her again and asking her out. Behave like nothing happened, and if she asks what was wrong with you last time, just brush it off like it's a misunderstanding... Don't fall in the trap of justifying your actions in front of her. Meet her, have a great time, escalate and see where it goes... Good luck!
Author:  Seduction Sebi [ Tue Feb 04, 2014 8:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I followed my game, I screwed at the end, now what?
I think it is important to proceed and even if you proceed and fuck it up, you can still learn your lessons from it. I think the most crucial mistake was to confront her with it. You should have stayed cool and non-impulsive. But there is always hope. Maybe you should try it with being authentic in her present and don't rely too much on routines and techniques, because they force you to stay in your head and think about everything too much.
Author:  jane28 [ Wed Feb 05, 2014 9:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I followed my game, I screwed at the end, now what?
theres nothing wrong about calling her, maybe she just misunderstood and i guess she needs to know.
Girls are always moody or something, they wanted to be special so make it up to her.
bring back the cool stuff and dont just do the game, make your own move.
Author:  anthonypham [ Wed Feb 05, 2014 10:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I followed my game, I screwed at the end, now what?
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A second date of walking with a bunch of friends, then isolating her I hold her hand tight, she squeezed even tighter, everything was great. Than all of a sudden, she somehow lost interest, she made lousy excuses for not going etc, so I started did confront her, and it all went too far (I believe I lost my cool for a second).
It was a test. After a while the girl felt a bit slutty, that she had let herself gamed that easily by you (=sort of anti-slut defense). To make herself not to feel slutty, she was giving some resistance. She wanted you to win her over, spend more effort. To be honest, i don't believe you handled well.

Never confront a girl (girls don't use logic or ratio, it is all about feelings) and you lost your cool (=DLV). Still, imho, the game is not lost yet.
Author:  n00bpua123 [ Wed Feb 05, 2014 1:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I followed my game, I screwed at the end, now what?
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The first question she asked me was whether I had a gf, which I found it very awkward.
Nothing wrong with that. You should have said, "No, I'm single. You?"
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Then all of a sudden, she somehow lost interest.
2nd date and you didn't kissed her, right?
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Is it worthwile to proceed this, since it will such a great conquer, or should I just let it go and learn from it? If I should proceed, than how, without making me a loser who is desperate to have her back?
Just ask her out again.
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