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| Author: | sd0070 [ Thu Jan 09, 2014 5:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Girl playing with my head...HELP! [text screenshots link] |
This girl from school is seriously messing with my head. She acts like she wants me, but wont hang out. We did hang out a few times, only at a coffee shop to study. We haven't hung out yet without the excuse of studying. As you can see in the text messages, she calls me boo, says she was thinking about me, etc. But then she wont hang out. She was raised by foreign parents so even though she speaks english just fine, there are some subtleties in the language that you can tell are a bit..."off". I also think she is religious, which may or may not have anything to do with why she seems afraid to hang out. Anyways, if you guys wouldnt mind reading the texts and letting me know what I did right/wrong, and where I should take it next, I would really appreciate it! (Im the green bubble): imgur com/a/EQ8Sc |
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| Author: | lopsiderembarrassed [ Thu Jan 09, 2014 6:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl playing with my head...HELP! [text screenshots link |
Are you serious? This is not pua at all. Quit the questions and standard afc romance fluff! Read up on what actually works |
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| Author: | sd0070 [ Thu Jan 09, 2014 6:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl playing with my head...HELP! [text screenshots link |
Quote: Are you serious? This is not pua at all. Quit the questions and standard afc romance fluff! Read up on what actually works
Well that's why I am here. Could you possibly expand on that criticism, or point me in the right direction to find advice?
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| Author: | lopsiderembarrassed [ Thu Jan 09, 2014 6:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl playing with my head...HELP! [text screenshots link |
Okay, you can adopt an attitude called the pua, which is an acronym for pickup artist, in other words, the exception to every rule. You can start by asking her an interesting question that requires her opinion such as "I'm going to eat out today, where is the best place you think?" Whatever she answers you can follow with something called a Dhv, which is an acronym for demonstration of higher value, which is a short story that subtly proves to her you are someone to be admired. Something like: "yeah, I usually go to x place, and everybody knows me there but I want to switch it up." These dhvs will demonstrate to her that you have a life that makes you and others around you happy. Also, do not be afraid to tease get through negs, which are backhanded compliments such as "you must be extra happy today you're sending a lot of smileys" or things like that. These negs work to even the playing field if she is a bit conceited or talks to a lot of people. Do not overuse them if she has low self esteem however, that could ruin the whole thing. After that you can learn more impressive routines that teach her about herself according to answers to your questions. |
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| Author: | sd0070 [ Thu Jan 09, 2014 7:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl playing with my head...HELP! [text screenshots link |
Quote: Okay, you can adopt an attitude called the pua, which is an acronym for pickup artist, in other words, the exception to every rule. You can start by asking her an interesting question that requires her opinion such as "I'm going to eat out today, where is the best place you think?" Whatever she answers you can follow with something called a Dhv, which is an acronym for demonstration of higher value, which is a short story that subtly proves to her you are someone to be admired. Something like: "yeah, I usually go to x place, and everybody knows me there but I want to switch it up." These dhvs will demonstrate to her that you have a life that makes you and others around you happy. Also, do not be afraid to tease get through negs, which are backhanded compliments such as "you must be extra happy today you're sending a lot of smileys" or things like that. These negs work to even the playing field if she is a bit conceited or talks to a lot of people. Do not overuse them if she has low self esteem however, that could ruin the whole thing. After that you can learn more impressive routines that teach her about herself according to answers to your questions.
Thanks for the examples (seriously). But I know the basics...I've read The Game, mystery method, used to read forums, etc. I was really hoping for some specific guidance in this situation, but I guess I come off as more of an afc than I thought. I do tease/neg in person and have been told by girls who have slept with me that I'm "different from all the other guys". Anyways...reading books and guides and whatnot just isn't the same as getting specific guidance from a group of people who have been in similar situations. Hence my asking here.
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| Author: | Apples185 [ Mon Jan 13, 2014 5:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl playing with my head...HELP! [text screenshots link |
Don't waste your time with a girl playing games, its stupid. Man up and forget about her. |
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