Well at some point you have to stop negging and do some bait/hook/reel/release to give her a chance to get your approval, don't you think ? Maybe the best time to do so was when she went to sit next to you. Otherwise she'll just end up thinking that you really don't like her for some reason.
The false time constraint thing is for when you are opening, so people know that you will not bother them for long until you reach the hook point when they do not want you to leave. So I am not sure that was useful as well.
The way you describe her cube is like saying :
- You have a low self esteem : You're insecure (negging)
- You want to get people to like you : you are needy (more negging)
- You have a warm personnality : don't know what you mean by that but doesn't sound like any kind of compliment. The main aim of this cold-reading is to teach them about themselves and making them feel good.
I don't know where you can go from there though... Cause basically you negged her every step of the way. If she is as insecure as you described her, that looks pretty hard to recover from.
