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Author:  hellobuddy [ Mon Sep 03, 2012 2:19 pm ]
Post subject:  What should I do about this?
Hey guys!

About the topic "This very shy girl.."
I texted her and she answered, the day after that i texted her again and she answered.. but 2 days after that when i texted her, she didn't reply. Any suggestions on what I should do? As I said, this girl is EXTREMELY shy so there is no way at all that SHE is going to text ME. I've also red about if you text a girl and she doesn't reply, you shouldn't write to her again.. But then these thoughts came: If I don't text her again, she isn't gonna text me.. so ya. And also, we have never said a word to each other IRL...
And yes, not to show off or anything but girls find me very actractive.. Some girls i've met at parties even tell me that she and her friends and many more thinks im a model.. wich im not :P

Please help guys, I really need this. Any suggestions?
By the way, the girl is a virgin, she has never made out before and not even a kiss!!
Author:  hellobuddy [ Mon Sep 03, 2012 2:25 pm ]
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Also i forgot to mention.. some of my friends (girls) are tight with the girl, so they know her.. :P
Author:  Jonny C [ Thu Sep 06, 2012 12:08 pm ]
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perhaps you've shown too much interest, what topics were you discussing?

don't text her, leave it a few days, show you don't need to text her, you just chose to text her.

if you are an attractive guy, maybe she's on guard because you might love her and leave her, or she's suspicious because she's not used to being approached.

if you stop texting, you are bound to bump into her with your social circle, or if one of your friends is supportive, arrange a group activity, which you both just so happen to be there
Author:  hellobuddy [ Thu Sep 06, 2012 5:42 pm ]
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First of all. Thanks! Really appreciate it!

I haven't showed too much interest, for sure! But I think it's cuz of she's like never been approached before.. But yea, I thought of that too, that my friends should arrange something like that.

And again, thank you!
Author:  Melodical [ Thu Sep 06, 2012 6:03 pm ]
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People are shy because they're afraid of being judged as unworthy and socially rejected, it's all to do with the wiring of our brains left over from prehistory were to be ostracised from the tribe meant certain death so nature evolved mechanisms to make us uncomfortable if our actions were likely to make that happen and thus perpetuating our genes to pass on the trait.

Shy girls are a different goose to the normal run of the mill HB's. When you do text her you need to act as if you had known her for a very long time as a goodfriend and text as if that was true. The girl will pick up that she has been "accepted" and the acceptence is done and dusted and will then warm to you.
Author:  hellobuddy [ Thu Sep 06, 2012 9:36 pm ]
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I see.. No, but srsly I really understand. It all makes sense now. But do you have any openers that you recommend me to use to this shy one?
Thanks for reply! :)
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