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| Author: | "J" [ Tue Aug 07, 2012 5:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | how early do you plan your dates? |
Do you call her a day before, or in the afternoon if you wanna get dinner? A girl that ive recently started working with seems to be down, but shes always with friends. Shes flaked on me twice cause she said she had previous plans with a friend, which turned out to be true because we unintentionally ran into each other while she was out with her friend. so my question is, how early should i plan things out with her? |
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| Author: | lusitanpua [ Tue Aug 07, 2012 6:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how early do you plan your dates? |
Hi, Can you give more information? I mean, how did you meet that girl? Is a friend of friend? Or... How did you interact with her? When a woman flakes on you twice usually that is not a good sign. But i need more contextual information to give a correct response. [quote=""J""]Do you call her a day before, or in the afternoon if you wanna get dinner? A girl that ive recently started working with seems to be down, but shes always with friends. Shes flaked on me twice cause she said she had previous plans with a friend, which turned out to be true because we unintentionally ran into each other while she was out with her friend. so my question is, how early should i plan things out with her?[/quote] |
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| Author: | "J" [ Wed Aug 08, 2012 10:34 pm ] |
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Ive worked with her for about a month, but ive only seen her at work like 4 times or so. I met her just by making small talk and making her laugh a lot. She always laughs at my jokes, even though they arent funny a lot of the times, and im always teasing her. She seems to talk to me a lot more when she breaks up with her ex, which i dont pay much attention to. most of the time she'll complain about how hes being like a girl, which ill respond "too bad you only date bitches", and i make sure i smile when i say that. other than that i keep our texts/phone calls really short. I dont know whether to consider her a flake, since i did let her know about my plans on very short notice. I typically allow a girl to have 3 strikes in terms of flaking. |
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| Author: | lusitanpua [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 11:24 am ] |
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Hi man, Just a few personal thoughts bellow (of course i can be wrong, it's just my opinion without knowing you and her, ok?): >>Ive worked with her for about a month, but ive only seen her at work like 4 times or so. I met her just by making small >>talk and making her laugh a lot. She always laughs at my jokes, even though they arent funny a lot of the times, and im >>always teasing her. Making her always laught does not mean necessarily that it's a good thing. I have examples of male friends that are very funny indeed, make girls laught but most of the times they are seen as goofy, i mean, as motivators to negative emotions they might have sometimes. We all must balance that humoristic side with serious ones... >>She seems to talk to me a lot more when she breaks up with her ex, which i dont pay much attention to. most of the time >>she'll complain about how hes being like a girl, which ill respond "too bad you only date bitches", and i make sure i smile >>when i say that. Carefull my friend: "(...)to talk to me a lot more(...)" ? You don't wanna be her girlfriend with a penis. If you listen a lot about her stories with her ex you are becoming close to the friendship zone. You must not fall into her frame, i mean, you listen one or two sentences and then change the subject and take her to your frame, be the leader in the conversation... >>other than that i keep our texts/phone calls really short. I dont know whether to consider her a flake, since i did let her >>know about my plans on very short notice. I typically allow a girl to have 3 strikes in terms of flaking. Ok. I have already posted in other sections that, personally, i don't wanna be with girls that recently broke up. But that's my thing and of course they are several examples of guys that did fine! I did that one time but i failed because she was still thinking about him and i was used as an emotional supporter. Well, to be honest, i kinda used her too because i was also out from a long relationship. We were a little down and needy and we joined in that (bad) context. If i was you i would stay away for a while just to ckeck is she reestablishs contact. And if she doest that try not to jump immediatly into her. Give space, take time and act as an alpha guy. [quote=""J""]Ive worked with her for about a month, but ive only seen her at work like 4 times or so. I met her just by making small talk and making her laugh a lot. She always laughs at my jokes, even though they arent funny a lot of the times, and im always teasing her. She seems to talk to me a lot more when she breaks up with her ex, which i dont pay much attention to. most of the time she'll complain about how hes being like a girl, which ill respond "too bad you only date bitches", and i make sure i smile when i say that. other than that i keep our texts/phone calls really short. I dont know whether to consider her a flake, since i did let her know about my plans on very short notice. I typically allow a girl to have 3 strikes in terms of flaking.[/quote] |
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| Author: | "J" [ Sun Aug 12, 2012 4:40 am ] |
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thanks dude. great reply |
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