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| Author: | carl300 [ Sun Jul 01, 2012 1:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need some advice on a relationship and texting |
Recently my girlfriend started to get hit on, on facebook by a certain guy. She was sort of flirting back and I saw it happened a few times. I addressed it lightly with her saying he is being inappropriate as he knows you have a boyfriend I don't want to argue but I am hurt by you going along with it. She cracked up! And started saying about all the things I had done which wasn't much example some girls text me some times that I used to date but I never reply or say something sort as I am not interested in them. Well she started accusing me of being jealous and saying that she wasn't flirting and that I should know I am her bf and not him, I agree with that part and I know jealousy won't help me with my game I know I have to play it cool. So we argued over text for a few hours and I kept a calm head on the whole time while she cracked up. We left it and didn't speak all day then she called me when I was in a nightclub with my friends. We spoke and I told her I had time to think and said I know I don't like it but your my girl and I see it as a compliment. Everything was better and we were texting back and forth and it ended ok but she still seemed a little off. I can tell that she is either annoyed at me or starting to pull away and I feel I should not chase her because I did nothing wrong but want to try and get connected with her again without being one of those guys who chases and doesn't get anywhere. I want to have playful texts and make it light hearted and easy going again. I'm quite good a text game but when I worry about this stuff I seem to lose me edge. That all happened last night. She hasn't text this morning like she usually does so I want to open a text convo with something... Any advice? |
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| Author: | Fox86 [ Tue Jul 03, 2012 7:14 pm ] |
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Ignore it? without knowing the exact details that's the best I can give. Maybe send something like: "I haven't had Italian in awhile, we're going to (insert place) tonight" If she doesn't respond she is being passive aggressive to get to you, in that case go out have fun, don't text or call her for awhile -my 2cents |
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| Author: | eatham [ Wed Jul 04, 2012 6:27 am ] |
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Fox86 nailed it. That's pretty much exactly what i would do. |
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| Author: | Sergio Maximus [ Thu Jul 05, 2012 9:03 am ] |
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Hey Mate You should not argue with her, what you can do it twist words. Your the man not her, arguing with her, brings your value down! What you should do next time is play it cool, Point out her bad mistakes. for example she said that you do it all the time replay back "Is are relationship tic to tac ? " You need to be the man in the problem that has happen is she dont text you or call, then dont text or call for at least 3 days. Then say a cool and not needy opener !! |
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