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Author:  Black Velvet [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 8:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Introducing a sexual edge on the conversation
Hi guys, I just realised a major flaw in my game, i usually fail to put a sort of sexual spin on the tone of my conversations when im gaming. Could any of you help me out with a few ideas or gambits a could drop mi-game to help me out?
Author:  Mago812 [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 9:10 pm ]
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When said with right tonality, anything can be turned sexual.

HB: "Can you pass me that?"
PUA: "Shure I can ;)........Oh you mean the salt?"

HB: "Heey babe just came home, how are you?"
PUA: "Just came you say, a?"

Just yesterday my coworker (I always bust her balls on her hair. Actually they're great, but orange so that gives me a great c&f base) was talking about how she has to do her hair hard if she wants them straight because they are curly.

Me: "Do them hard you say?"

I know it sound corny, I feel like total dbag when I do it but for some unlogical reason, it works.

Right after me saying that we went separate ways. She smiled and said "Dont think to hard about IT.". I just smiled because I froze, otherwise my comeback would be something like "ME? You put that on track/in conversation". Something like that.

Don't be afraid to fail from time to time, if you do it in one-on-one convo, there is 98% of succes if done at least remotely correct.

Hope that helps.

EDIT:

Just be careful if you do it in public. She might defend herself with pointing out your mistakes. If that happens, just point you mistakes out even more and you're saved.

"Well look at YOUR hair? It looks like a wig"- "Dammit, can you see that? daaaamn I'll request my money back, the seller said it looks better than the real one. Soo you have orange hair..."
Author:  TXkrush [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 9:11 pm ]
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This seemed to work pretty good for me on one date I had. I know I set the frame with this.

So I saw this movie, I think it was called 100 girls or something like that. I think it was made in the early 90's abouth this guy and his relationships.

At the begining of the Movie he was giving a dialogue and he mentioned how he thought it was awesome to hear a girl laugh because laughter is a smiles orgasm and how he loves to give a girl a giggle climax.

I only field tested this once because she was laughing and smiling but I wanted to set the tone that its not about just being friendly. I was joking sexually, so mix this in after she is laughing and let me know how it goes.

I screwed up on my movie date with this because she was with-in kissing range and squeezing my hand but I waited and never kissed her. I was waiting until after the movie but by then the sexual frame wore off. I am planning on using this again but havent had the right opportunity yet.
Author:  Mago812 [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 10:22 pm ]
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I only field tested this once because she was laughing and smiling but I wanted to set the tone that its not about just being friendly. I was joking sexually, so mix this in after she is laughing and let me know how it goes.
I'd say it's easier to mix things up if she is in a playful mode. But you need to have a strong frame, if you start with the sexual twisting after months of "just friends" it might get her confused in a bad way. You just need to calibrate your body language to your words and you'll be fine.-I had a case like that but I set a frame in which I didn't care what she'll think; she verbally dissaproved a little, but complied in terms of body language completely.
Author:  TXkrush [ Fri Jun 29, 2012 4:58 am ]
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I only field tested this once because she was laughing and smiling but I wanted to set the tone that its not about just being friendly. I was joking sexually, so mix this in after she is laughing and let me know how it goes.
I'd say it's easier to mix things up if she is in a playful mode. But you need to have a strong frame, if you start with the sexual twisting after months of "just friends" it might get her confused in a bad way. You just need to calibrate your body language to your words and you'll be fine.-I had a case like that but I set a frame in which I didn't care what she'll think; she verbally dissaproved a little, but complied in terms of body language completely.
Good point on the body language. I think 3 things im good at is body language, conversation (hook points), and situation openers. So I think I forgot to add the calibration part. That is a big part of it. Set that frame early and you cant go wrong. It really is easier said then done. Im still slowly learning this. Ease your way in to the frame. Maybe a dirty joke or something... just a thought.
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