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| Author: | wildcard98 [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 2:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I got it to middle game,don´t know what else I did wrong |
Hi guys wildcard here,I just started two months ago after a devastating relationship waste,and i got the chance to know a fellow wingman PUA,anyways,this time my wingman was about to have a anxiety arrest and he had to bounce out of the bar,so I got a fellow pal there whom invited me(luckly) to his table. In a nutshell;I saw a two set in the bar,talking,then i just came in and opened them like a boss,evreything went perfect after that i was feeling so free,they started hugging me,laughing evreything went cool after some funny stories,negging them playfully, they even told me I could have anything they had on the table,they actually took my wallet,and placed it on the bar, they offered me a cigarrete,drinks(they didn't got me drunk,I did)but after a while it got boring, I couldn't hear em well because of the music,I think they found that a little bit annoying. I ran out of things to say and that's usually when I come up with "ok guys I gotta go back to my friends,cause I don't want them leaving me with the whole bill" but i didn't, I actually liked them both,but a guy happend to isolate the other girl(thanks random Wingman),and that's where it all went straight to hell,I think I got a little bit drunk,then that random guy offered them free shots and that's where I sealed the almost broken deal. Anyway,in the end she gave me back my wallet(evreything was there,money,and all that stuff, seriously I checked) I got the facebook friend request(asking for a phone number can get any girl nervous here in mexico because of all the druglord shooting and kidnapping situation where experiencing),the thing is, she gave me my wallet back saying only one thing,"you blew it somehow",or,"we're about to leave." OH,FWI:I'm mexican,the game is a little bit harder here,but the chicks are way hotter. I'm reading:MAGIC BULLETS and THE GAME(neil strauss) If you guys think I need to add something please feel free to ask,whatever I need to add so you guys can give me tips about getting physical, I can't stick to that,don't know what to do. I missed a kiss last friday but that's another story. cheers |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 3:09 pm ] |
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when your at a bar, things are going perfect, they open like butter and seem very interested... escalate things further, you could have gone for a kiss, or started feeling them out for if they were available to come home with you |
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| Author: | wildcard98 [ Tue May 01, 2012 2:40 am ] |
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that's actually my problem,have read tons and tons of material about escalating,and it gets frustrating cause evrey girl's diffrent,last friday I was dancing with a nice girl and she was into me,oue cheecks and forheads were drawn into each other but I didn't wanted to come to soon,and waited till she was about to leave,the moment came and I kissed her neck then his cheeck then she giggled made a move then I tried to complete it then she moveed away and left with her friend, I was devastated on how lame i ended up being. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue May 01, 2012 9:21 am ] |
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Quote: that's actually my problem,have read tons and tons of material about escalating,and it gets frustrating cause evrey girl's diffrent,last friday I was dancing with a nice girl and she was into me,oue cheecks and forheads were drawn into each other but I didn't wanted to come to soon,and waited till she was about to leave,the moment came and I kissed her neck then his cheeck then she giggled made a move then I tried to complete it then she moveed away and left with her friend, I was devastated on how lame i ended up being.
start building compliance as soon as you open, you want to be escalating the whole time to figure out where a girls threashold is quickly,chiefs-guide-to-outer-game-vt75887.html check out the part, labelled compliance ladder there are several different ladders of escalation and ideas, but any form of investment can be thought of as a form of compliance ranging from low compliance all the way to high compliance, just keep in mind while hanging out what sort of investment you are getting and test if you can take it a little further here and there, pushing things forwards over and over, the little steps to build compliance quickly add up |
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| Author: | TeenPua [ Fri May 04, 2012 12:10 am ] |
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Awebo! It's good to see a Mexican in the pua community, i'm mexican myself and Mexican girls are way hotter! ahah , I live in Miami now but... where you went wrong is that you didn't start compliance testing her! Remember, when she gives you 3 or more IOI's it's time to start letting her win you over slowly. Start using some Qualifiers! such as bait hook reel release! Give her an IOI followed by an IOD to balance her confort levels and start kino plowing! hope this helped! no mames |
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| Author: | Hawke91 [ Sun May 06, 2012 2:54 pm ] |
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Escalate as fast as possible. The sooner the better. Compliance.ladder is gold here. Also use a lot of kino, a lot. It builds sexual tension. Then on youll just feel the right time for a kiss, take a leap of faith and see how it goes. |
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| Author: | Hawke91 [ Sun May 06, 2012 3:07 pm ] |
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Escalate as fast as possible. The sooner the better. Compliance.ladder is gold here. Also use a lot of kino, a lot. It builds sexual tension. Then on youll just feel the right time for a kiss, take a leap of faith and see how it goes. |
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| Author: | carlito_xb [ Sun May 06, 2012 3:28 pm ] |
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i suck 2 at comfort building,its like building attraction is simple and if i feel and see the attraction is there,i wanna hook up,number close etc.knowing i need 2 shift 2 comfort building and once im in the comfort building phase the attraction slowly dies and i stay stuck in the comfort zone,so i think it works a bit like..build attraction,build comfort,build attraction,build comfort,build attraction,build comfort etc.u have 2 mix it and keep it balanced wich is the hard part |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Sun May 06, 2012 7:48 pm ] |
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You said it started getting weird, the music was too loud or whatever. When that happens (it happens a lot) I move the set. I say "Hey lets go over here" and give some reason (or no reason, they often come). Ideally this move would give you a chance to isolate and you could go for a kiss close without waiting for the end of the night. |
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