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| Author: | Libertine Aim [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 6:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What to do when girl complains about being bored? |
Simple as that, the title says it all Im always in doubt what to answer, specially when texting with a girl and she says something like that. Advices much appreciated! //LA |
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| Author: | FCgame [ Thu Apr 26, 2012 8:19 am ] |
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That's related with the type of questions that you ask, if you ask random questions during a conversation it's completely normal that she gets bores. Try to find what kind of things she like, find things in common... etc. Let's say for example that you ask her what do you do for living? and she says I'm a doctor and you say " Oh what kind of food do you like?" Do you see my point? Findin common things is not hard, just be patiend and remember she's giving you information at all time. Pay attention to what she's saying and make statements about it. Maybe this video can help you out http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeQJmdHTns&feature=plcp |
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| Author: | Nomos [ Thu Apr 26, 2012 9:18 pm ] |
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Do you mean that she says stuff like that during a conversation with you, or does she text you that she's bored before there's any conversation? (I don't know how to say it otherwise, but I hope you understand what I mean) In the first case, you should probably do what FCgame said. Make the conversation interesting. Ask things about her life and pick in on them. Also, making statements help keeping a conversation going. Stuff like 'what are you doing' isn't probably going to work, since she's obviously doing something which made her feel bored. Talking about a funny movie you recently saw, about a situation in which you both laughed your asses off, a happy/funny memory... If you already know the girl well you can joke about something she said or did, I don't know, make her feel less bored, show her you're interesting. If she has nothing to do, you can say stuff like "I was just going to the park, wanna join me?" In the second case, out of all peoples, she texts YOU when she's bored, which means she's thinking of you. You can ask her what she was doing and if she's planned anything for the rest of the day. You can always ask her out to go hang out togetter. She texted you, so she must like you (or not hate you at worst). You haven't given much info about your connection to the girl, so you have to determine whether or not to meet up with her. Hope this helped |
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| Author: | titanman [ Thu Apr 26, 2012 10:40 pm ] |
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I don't reply. |
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| Author: | Furiox [ Thu Apr 26, 2012 11:19 pm ] |
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Quote: I don't reply.
Thats probably the best thing you can do to make her feel more attracted to you because you dont have time for stupid shit like that. She probably texts you just to feel less bored, pretty much using you, it will show low value if you try to make her feel less bored, you are doing her a favor pretty much but she needs to earn that first. If its a really good girl you could suggest to go do something but please do not text with her like a puppet to make her feel less bored. |
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