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Author:  [deleted] [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Approaching, getting numbers but not dates
Alright, alright, alright, alright, alright, alright, alright, alright, now fellas

Just got off spring break and in the past week and a half I have done 35 approaches. Granted I didn't just approach the hot girls so I would say that of those 35 maybe 10 were hot, and of those I have gotten 5 numbers.

I have a pretty tight game except for maybe I don't use that much sexual tension when I first meet someone which is fine in my opinion. I am well calibrated to the conversation, have good eye contact, posture, loud and clear voice, well dressed and groomed. I tell interesting DHV stories and ask the girls about themselves (to find things in common that we both enjoy doing) but not too much and of course I have a couple witticisms that I use that make girls laugh. In summary, I feel really good about the interactions which I usually make last for about 15 minutes.

Now 4 of the 5 girls I have gotten numbers from have not texted me back. I texted them the same day several hours after meeting them. I decided not to send a boring text and that may be why. Here are the texts I sent:

"Hey there bio nerd its john. You're lucky I talk to nerds. Anyways you now have my number. Handle with care"

"Hey there gangastah its john. Fun meeting you dont worry we'll chill sometime this week." and the next day "Hey I know youve been spending the last 24 hours trying to craft the perfect response to my text but haha dont worry about it. Im actually wondering do you want to grab lunch tomorrow?"

Texting 2 friends that I got both numbers from yesterday:
"Hey Olivia John here. You have my number now so make sure you save this to your VIP list. Cool meeting you today"

"Hey Melissa John here. I texted the same thing to Olivia but just wanted to let you know you now have a VIP number. Handle with care :p"

What are your thoughts?
Author:  [deleted] [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:12 pm ]
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update: just texted 'bio nerd' again:

me "You want to hit up the rock climbing wall tonight?"

her "Hey thanks for the invite but I'm not going anywhere tonight. Im not feeling super"

me "sorry to hear that"

her "Thanks. Lovely being a girl lol"


so 3 out of 5 girls haven't texted back. anyways...
Author:  statistics [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:19 pm ]
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lol i got the same problem cant get them to meet up with me
Author:  Stelar [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:47 pm ]
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NEVER GO FOR THE NUMBER , GO FOR HER SEXUALLY !

NUMBERS MEAN NOTHING.
Author:  kingmack07 [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 5:06 am ]
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NEVER GO FOR THE NUMBER , GO FOR HER SEXUALLY !

NUMBERS MEAN NOTHING.
Agreed! Kino escalate and build sexual tension. You need to stand out and make her want to see you again.
Author:  Chris101 [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 5:52 am ]
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I don't necessarily agree with the "numbers mean nothing" sentiment... sometimes I have number closed after not escalating (little or limited physicality), then met up again and sealed the deal. I'm not saying don't kino escalate if you have the chance, being a fundamental thing to have instilled into every interaction (relating "Man to Woman" as Jeffy would say), but there are different ways to go about achieving your goals, since situations are different every time. Sounds like your game has improved a fair bit, but like anything, if you keep plugging away and tweaking your approach you'll figure out what works... in this case, converting more numbers into dates.
Author:  kingmack07 [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 11:17 pm ]
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I don't necessarily agree with the "numbers mean nothing" sentiment... sometimes I have number closed after not escalating (little or limited physicality), then met up again and sealed the deal. I'm not saying don't kino escalate if you have the chance, being a fundamental thing to have instilled into every interaction (relating "Man to Woman" as Jeffy would say), but there are different ways to go about achieving your goals, since situations are different every time. Sounds like your game has improved a fair bit, but like anything, if you keep plugging away and tweaking your approach you'll figure out what works... in this case, converting more numbers into dates.
Of course there are instances where it might work, but majority of them will fall through if you don't make a strong enough impression. Girls don't care, they will give out numbers.
Author:  [deleted] [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 11:39 pm ]
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Today there were six or seven girls laying out in the lawn in their bikinis in front of the main building at my college. My two guy friends were two afraid to approach with me, so I walked over there and said 'hey girls you look hot, im going to lay out with you,' 'im going to take the middle' with that i took my pulled off shirt and started laying out with them.
The girls were impressed by my entrance and they were like 'do you always come up to girls like this' (they're onto me haha) and i said 'if it's two girls, yea cause thats fun, but if its a guy and girl no i dont because that is eiffel towering and i dont lean that way'

So good start, i started messing with one of the girls ipods to find a song and then i called my two friends over to help liven up the discussion.

When I was leaving i saw some people giving out cool sunglasses and shit for free so i brought them over there and got all the girls free stuff once again impressing them. They were like 'who are you???' and then i got the hottest girl's number and left after inviting them all to a barbecue. oh yea and when i was leaving the second time i pulled the hot girl up and gave her a hug and she was like haha and very taken off guard. So I definitely used a lot of sexual tension, I will let you all know how this plays out and if we have sex
Author:  kingmack07 [ Sat Mar 24, 2012 3:45 am ]
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That's how you do it! Keep it up man.
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