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| Author: | zookmaster [ Fri Mar 09, 2012 1:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How can you DHV when you have nothing to back it up? |
Even when talking to friends I find it hard to DHV with my current situation. At this minute I don't drive, have not many travel experiences and lack knowledge despite being cocky/funny. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Fri Mar 09, 2012 2:27 pm ] |
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don't tell stories, just actually DEMONSTRATE HIGH VALUE lead men, hit on women, feel willing to emote yourself freely at all times, stand up for your friends, |
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| Author: | Theodiscus [ Fri Mar 09, 2012 2:47 pm ] |
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Sounds like your trying to DHV people that know your current situation, some random slut doesn't know shit about you. Car/job/money/fame is not the only way to DHV. |
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| Author: | zookmaster [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 4:40 am ] |
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How do you DHV random sluts without the life experience? Fake stories? |
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| Author: | Hakuna [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 5:22 am ] |
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You're thinking of a DHV in terms of substance, and that's only once aspect of DHVing When a guy has money, when he's well travelled, when he's famous; he DOES have value. When he approaches a girl, there is an intrinsic understanding of his status as higher, or equal to her. As a result, their dynamic naturally takes a certain course that it WOULD NOT with normal beta males who have no social proof. For instance, He KNOWS he has higher value so he is prone to take more RISKS with her. He tries to escalate fast, he is more agressive, he goes to kino. Why? Because if she rejects him, he KNOWS he can get another girl with all his wealth + power. Rejection is not an issue for him, wasting time on a girl who won't put out is the issue. He has better things to do. He KNOWS he has higher secksual market value than her; so HE DISQUALIFIES HER FIRST. He might point out that she's kinda modest or some ambiguous type of neg; only to hint towards his dissatisfaction. He KNOWS that he can get other girls, so he occasionally blatantly leaves her and goes to talk to someone else. If he loses her? Irrelevant, he would rather play the table. He KNOWS he has substance behind him so he walks slow, talks slow, and is naturally aloof and cool as fuck. Now, DHVing in the way YOU'RE talking about, is NOT about building up these things. You don't need them, they are superfluous. It's about mimicking said personality to ELICIT THE SAME DESIRABLE REACTIONS FROM WOMEN. So you don't need to lie about traveling somewhere or having money. You could be telling her a story of your crazy ex to indicate you're pre-selected or any random story delivered with ENERGY and CHARISMA. You don't even need a DHV STORY, you could just ask her "tell me something interesting" and then neg her to increase your value relative to her. Displaying higher value is not like a neg. You don't just do it through a story and then leave it at that. It's about setting up a DOMINANT and MASCULINE frame, one that she can willfully submit and see you as a man worth chasing. A frame that subtly hints towards your higher value, it does not have to advertise it with substantial proof. This might sound like a laughable idea but study gay guys. Don't act gay, just pay attention to the way their dynamic with the girld around them. they are constantly DHVing the shit outta them. There's this weird understanding that because they are not secksually attracted to any of them, the girls do not have the same "ass on the apex of a skyscraper" attitude. They are all competing for his approval and attention, trying to impress him for his praise. |
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| Author: | Sonicvega [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 5:30 am ] |
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Be a spin master!! Your walking or biking to work . Great make that a plus. Say its great that you have been able to burn off extra calories on your walks to work . What ever your situation it not only has a silver lining it has an advantage. I went through a period where I was not working and my game was not effected. As a matter of fact I got more nurturing than before. |
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| Author: | *FlaiR* [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 12:26 pm ] |
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What the other guys said was good. DHV? What is DHV?? The only DHV you need is you being a man and going after what you want. The biggest DHV's are this: - have a non-seeking approval behavior - be relaxed around women - be comfortable talking with women (talk with them as if you already know them) If you are really capable of demonstrating these 3 dominant male cues..girls will feel instant attraction towards you. Add to that the ability to sexually escalate and you're gold. DHV's as from Mystery's Method are superficial..they are for the weak and submissive men. Bragging with stories where you have your DHV's uploaded is just weak game. A true man should never have to brag about things he done in the past to get a girl attracted. The sexual tension already exists between a man and a woman. You do not need any kind of story...the faster you get rid of this DHV thing from your vocabulary, you'll soon start to see results! Good luck in field! |
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