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| Author: | rickorollo [ Sun Feb 19, 2012 9:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Building more Attraction |
First post here, i have learned a lot from this forum (and other pick up sites), but I am kind of stuck in a Situation, where i think I need to build more Attraction. First of all, I'm only 15 which is where the main problem starts, she's 17 (soon 18, but then again im soon 16). Our school has to many girls (lucky us) and so some guys from other grades filled in as dance partners for their prom. So Kino was already a given, but i suppose this isnt actually helping because it wasn't really "sexual kino". Ok now for the situation: Prom is already over, we met a lot before and after in clubs (here in Austria you can get in pretty much everywhere), because we have similiar tastes in music and get along really well. This Weekend I met her again, and we were on the dancefloor for a really long time (friends are all so lazy, hers were away most of the time too). She always went near me tried to dance with me (at one point she was grinding me), but whenever I tried to get more sexual she just slowly went away again only to start the whole thing a new. Basically shes giving me IOIs all the time but blocks when it starts to get "serious". (Though she did the same to two other guys who tried to dance with her, dunno if she knew them but didnt look like it). I think that I still need to build more Attraction, so has anyone good tips for that? (I didn't run the cube or the 5 questions game yet, plan on doing those though). I am displaying cocky and funny, she sees me dancing with other girls ect. buuuuut she also saw me fucking wasted 2 times. (One of them being the prom, gosh i was so stupid, which is also why i dont drink anymore), but then again she is a party girl (she doesnt remember the prom either) and drinks a lot too, and she also knows that i've stopped drinking for now. I also know two of her best friends pretty well so i don't think i would get blocked by any of them. I could go into a lot of detail right now but I dont think any of you would want to read that. Basically anyone got tips for building more Attraction and maybe also how to dress/look older? (she mistook me for 16 at the beginning, even though i look pretty young :/.) Oh and she inivited me over to come drinking on her birthday before we all would go to our normal club, but I think that this could put me even further in the friend zone :/ Thanks if anyone bears with this long text ^_^ |
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| Author: | rickorollo [ Sun Feb 26, 2012 10:38 am ] |
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Sorry for the double post, maybe someone could help me after the additional info from this Weekend. My original plan was to get her on Friday, but she didn't show up at the Party because none of her freinds were coming, I did make out with an 18 year old girl from my class though (showing that the age difference is possible to overcome, again im only 15). The next day she asked me if I would go to another Party because she would be there (she initated contact), and when I said that none of my freinds were coming she said that she is going to be there. Buuut it didn't go according to plan because I had to come home really early (midnight) because on Friday I was out till 3am, and we went to a male friend of hers (a female friend joined us on the train), and we were drinking there and when we arrived at the Party I had half an hour left till I had to go, so I went dancing, they went drinking (showing a willingness to walk away, and i wanted to use the little time I had), and when they moved up to the dancefloor (I'm mostly Kino Escalating and Kiss closing on the dancefloor, because it really is the easiest way and you can isolate easier), I already had to leave. She inivted me to her house next weekend, to come drink before going to the club because its her birthday (meaning theres also other people there, me being obviously the youngest :s), and I think that this invitation is putting me more and more in the friendzone. Anyone got a mindset or something to break that state and win her over that night (or at least take a step in the right direction)? I have thought about running the Birthday Routine with the Match for a little Kiss Close but I would prefer something different :s (and also isolation is going to be hard since its her birthday). |
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