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Author:  swarly [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 4:57 am ]
Post subject:  she wont let me escalate
iv been hangin out with this chic for about 1 1/2 months (meeting only like once or twice a week)
everytime we hang out we end up making out but when i move down to her neck she either stops or says no. one time she said "theres a time and place for everything...now is not the time"

i always had trouble with sexual escalation

any suggestions?

P.s. for those familiar with vin dicarlo's stuff, i believe she's a TDR (tester denier realist, AKA "private dancer")
Author:  Teh_Weapon [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 4:58 am ]
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Who starts the whole making out process?
Author:  Vietman100 [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 6:45 am ]
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Yeah, pretend like you're looking at an invisible watch for 10 seconds then proceed to molest her again.

I'm kidding, don't do that. We need more details. Elaborate please.
Author:  Vietman100 [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 6:46 am ]
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Yeah, pretend like you're looking at an invisible watch for 10 seconds then proceed to molest her again.

I'm kidding, don't do that. We need more details. Elaborate please.
Author:  swarly [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 5:42 pm ]
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what kinda details do u want?

i started the making out
Author:  gointothetop [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 5:46 pm ]
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Don't let that shit phase you. Freeze her out. If she says "no" you say "ok" don't push it. If she's making out with you it's established that there's sexual interest. Don't apologize for escalating. I recommend that while your making out you grab the back of her head and maybe pull her hair a little bit. Let her know who's boss and then before she can say no YOU take it away.

I just went through a similar thing. A girl I've been seeing I met her back in December. We've hung out made out and cuddled but nothing sexual. I didn't push it I waited another week and had her come over. I fought LMR the whole night. But finally we fell asleep together. I woke up in the middle of the night and started escalating. We had sex once that night and again in the morning. Just let her come buddy.
Author:  Teh_Weapon [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 7:26 pm ]
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Don't let that shit phase you. Freeze her out. If she says "no" you say "ok" don't push it. If she's making out with you it's established that there's sexual interest. Don't apologize for escalating. I recommend that while your making out you grab the back of her head and maybe pull her hair a little bit. Let her know who's boss and then before she can say no YOU take it away.

I just went through a similar thing. A girl I've been seeing I met her back in December. We've hung out made out and cuddled but nothing sexual. I didn't push it I waited another week and had her come over. I fought LMR the whole night. But finally we fell asleep together. I woke up in the middle of the night and started escalating. We had sex once that night and again in the morning. Just let her come buddy.
This was pretty well said. Freezing her out is the best way to deal with the entire situation unless she trolls you by not responding to the freeze out. If that happens just chuck the deuces and go sarging ;)
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