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| Author: | Smoke20 [ Fri Jan 27, 2012 1:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Dealing with bad conversation (from her) |
I've read a lot on here about how nervousness and neediness can screw up vibing and maintaining a conversation. You all know what I mean - things like talking about something trivial, pointless and unrelated to anything in a desperate attempt to keep the conversation going. It's usually something you can't really respond to. But there are also situations where it's the girl making horrible conversation out of neediness. She'll spot a strange spelling of something and point it out to you and make a desperate laugh. The joke is not funny. There's no response you can make to that without sounding daft yourself. Or she'll comment on how she likes a certain brand of something tedious. Or she'll make a 5 word statement about something you have no opinion about or doesn't interest you. Once in a while it's no big deal. But sometimes, and this is my current sticking point, it's how to deal with a girl who is doing this constantly. Here's a list of things I've tried: 1. Tease her. This works kinda well the first time you use it. You can get some laughs out of it. Ultimately, however, it just leaves the girl feeling uncomfortable. And if you do it over and over again with each daft comment she keeps throwing at you she'll close up or get offended. 2. Ignore her. Works kind of like a neg/dhv. She feels like she has to compensate so rushes to say something else. Kinda good, but again, you can't really use this more than once without offending her. 3. Pretend you find it funny/interesting. It doesn't have to be genuine, she'll pick up on the fact that you're not impressed but polite enough not to put her down for it. Try too hard and now you're supplicating which is, as we all know, a massive turn off. And a bit degrading. 4. Lead that into a different topic. Not always possible when she says "Oh how funny. That street name sounds like "Faucets" haha". If her initial comment was bad and you start a new topic off of that anyways, chances are it'll come out stupid and you'll look like you're desperately trying to keep the conversation going. 5. Start a new topic. Disregard her comment outright. You'd better have something very interesting because this is rather insulting. 6. Faucets... why are you talking to me about faucets? A light put-down. Kills the vibe. Basically, everything I'm trying is getting me bad results. Except perhaps for number 2, ignoring her, which is about as smooth as I can make the interaction after that point. Number 3 also gets slightly mediocre results at times. Any suggestions? |
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| Author: | rymer [ Fri Jan 27, 2012 3:33 am ] |
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I agree with Tony. There are some girls that love talking, and sometimes they talk about boring things, or things we dont like but they do. Remember to analyze the info she's giving. You can try to be funny sometimes, and other times being serious. It shows that you are both a mature guy, and you know how to have fun. Something that works for me is asking her opinion about something, it keeps convos going. Keep trying and don't give up 
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| Author: | black_hat [ Fri Jan 27, 2012 10:33 pm ] |
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and if she is too boring, go for the next one.. this game is about having quality women around you.. I've been trying to not talk to girls who just don't get my game, don't know to flirt, are dumb.. |
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