Hey everyone. I want to analyze this conversation with HB8 that I had today. Today was the first day of the semester (university).
Me friends and I (mixed group - I have no problem getting friendzoned) were hanging out on campus when this girl I hardly knew (met her through a friend) was walking by with her friends. I called out her name and she stopped and hugged me, and we got to talking. She then told her friends that she'll meet them at XYZ (IOI?).
We have a casual chat about how shitty last semester was and she told me she failed some courses. So I tried frame amplification - told her it was better to fail and repeat than barely pass at all cuz then her GPA would suck. She laughed.
Then I told her I was leaving for uni abroad in September and she said that she was leaving too. I was surprised to meet someone else in my situation. We chatted about the details for abit, then I suggested that we should go clubbing this week and she was very enthusiastic about it.
At this point I should have let the conversation trail off, but my AFC side felt it necessary to point out that I actually hate clubbing (but prefer house parties) and that partying alot is expensive (she might think I'm poor lol). Which I'm guessing DLVed myself, since she pointed out it's who you hang out with. So at this point I suggested she shouldn't keep her friends waiting, and told her I'd see her at the club.
I know however I kept the mood light and I was funny whever possible and she was laughing.
BTW using trance words to make a deeper connection is hard work. I coudn't focus on what she was saying trying to pickup the pattern.
