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Author:  deltakrisp [ Fri Jan 06, 2012 12:21 am ]
Post subject:  Keeping the convo alive

If you approach a girl or group of people, how do you keep the conversation from dying? Every typical conversation goes something among the lines of; hi, hello, what's your name, how old are you, where you go to school, etc, blah, blah, cool...and then silence. No attraction is built, no escalation is made, the conversation went nowhere and ends in awkward silence. What the hell do you do to keep it going??

Author:  PURE95 [ Fri Jan 06, 2012 3:45 am ]
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Very Good Question man :D

Author:  minas [ Fri Jan 06, 2012 5:05 am ]
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try to use kino from the first moment you meat her and do routines on her,
be funny all girls love to laugh
also i do not reccomend to talk about that kind of stuff, schoool, what she does for hobby etc.. are just boring to talk about
you need to be different from the other guys who are hitting on her

good luck ma men

Author:  deltakrisp [ Fri Jan 06, 2012 5:58 am ]
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Quote:
i do not reccomend to talk about that kind of stuff, schoool, what she does for hobby etc.. are just boring to talk about
you need to be different from the other guys who are hitting on her

good luck ma men
okay, care do share suggestions?

Author:  adam emre [ Fri Jan 06, 2012 12:47 pm ]
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Simply work from observation. A comment on what she's doing/wearing/looking/acting. Something about the place, or something within sight or sound. Be enthusiastic either positively about it, or make fun of it. Don't completely bash it though.

Stay away from school/work/boring common things. I typically never mention uni/what course they do/where they work (unless it comes up specifically) try to disassociate your conversation away from lifes boring things.

Author:  Grimbo [ Sat Jan 07, 2012 12:57 am ]
Post subject:  This is what ya do

Hey fellas,

You open first (duh). I than transition with a cold read that I make up on the spot usually. "You look like a student" "You look like trouble". That should start a convo on its own, dont just ask open ended questions.

Ask a question, make a statement off that, and elaborate. Than keep going. Than transition it. Begin with the end in mind.

- Grimbo

Author:  Dr.Joyful [ Sat Jan 07, 2012 6:42 pm ]
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Facts are boring to chicks. Hobbies, job/school, age, all those topics are so common, they are even covered on job applications.

Creativity is what keeps a convo alive. Use your imagination questions like are you a teacher? are just much funner than questions than... what do you do? WHY? because it might cause her to respond why, do i look like a teacher? From there you can lead it. Keep in mind you should look at conversations as a game, be playful, fun and exciting with it. Don't force a conversation on her with questions regarding facts. Open one up and invite her in.

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