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Well first off do you feel you are nagging her or bothering her... you might be coming off as desperate, needy, and that annoying co-worker who keeps hitting on her.First off take it slower just a bit take two steps backwards, try and build some more attraction between the two of you, make some cute comments a joke, and then thats it, let her think about you a bit. Then as this continues possibly start a conversation and make sure your not putting yourself in the LJBF Zone, make sure your coming off as a possible suitor, but don't harass dont want a law suit. Also if you built enough attraction it won't even be an issue, only the creep who keeps hitting on a girl gets a law suit not the suave PUA. Then dont ask her out, just randomly mention how you and a bunch of friends HAVE PLANS!!! You already have plans not making any with her, and that she should come along if she is free, dont even ask if she wants to come, just mention it. If she says no, you just respond alright and then either continue ur convo or just get back to work... If she says yes, well than get her number and make it happen, but dont over text.
I know this doesnt cover everything but I think this might help with your mindset.
Pretty much
1. Dont harass or talk to her every chance you get
2. Every time you talk build attraction - say a joke something interesting then you can lead into a small convo
3. Don't get deep within the first 30 secs of ur convo
4. Dont ask her out, mention you have plans and she should come if she can
5. If yes get her number if no WHO CARES you are going to party with other friends and meet someone new
6. No harassment
Best of luck
-Raphael